THOUGHTS - Articles

Philosophy - A Lukewarm Subject

​ I never understood politics, hence, I never followed it. I always followed philosophy but I never understood it. Inference, politics may work (in my case) but not philosophy. Hence, I became a matter of not easily understood. My wife married me because she thought I was an understanding man. Today, we hardly understand each other. And my discoveries never led me to understand the metaphysics of life. The way of lives of many. I keep changing. At times, I am classical, at...

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A Permanent Solution To Your Mental Health Issues

​  Today's lifestyle is taking a toll on each and every one of us. In the past few decades, there have been enormous amount of cases regarding mental health, ever wondered why? We live in a world influenced by media. There is constant pressure on all of us to have better lives than everyone else around us. So, after all of this pressure building most of us feel stress, anxiety, depression etc. ​ We need to realise that it can be potentially dangerous to our health and...

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Indian mythology and fiction

Today, it’s tough to overlook the spurt of mythological fiction from any Indian bookstore. From the bestseller walls to the new arrival ones, stores are buzzing with new age mytho-fiction accounts. Multicast epics of all times have been broken into singular narratives, showcasing the Gods more human, less divine. To focal characters like Ram and Shiva to more peripheral characters like Surpanakha alias Ravana's demon sister, the Indian mythological fiction scene voices everyone’s story....

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Life is like a boat

Life sometimes seems to be easy, but in another chance it gets harsh. Everyone  in this world has some purpose, which they succeed with their hardwork and fortune. From history, we can see many examples like American president Abraham Lincoln. He was a commoner and used to sell newspaper. But he did not take that life as his fate. By becoming president, he proved that if someone has potential,then no one can stop him.  Martin Luther King junior, Booker at Washington were the pioneer...

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War - What is it good for?

A thought provoking question that has baffled my pals, acquaintances, and a significant percentage of people for quite some time.​ The question, though, is pretty simple and straightforward. Whether a war for supremacy really brings with it any fruitful results? Before jumping to the merits and demerits of engaging in a war and, polarizing the issue, lets look at the situation from another angle and compare it to one of the most extreme sports ever, the sport of courage and...

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The Art of Being Alone

As a law student, I am between internships, between new cities and new people every few months. I have stumbled across the realization that one of the most important skills to develop as an adult is the art of enjoying one’s own company. As life gets busier and people around us scant, it is always important to keep in touch with the most important person in your life: you, yourself. The art of being alone is such that if it’s imposed on us, it’s sad and torturous. But if we take...

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Time Flies, but you are the Pilot

Time When asked " What is biggest mistake we make in life? ", the Buddha replied ' The Biggest Mistake is you think you have time '. Time is free but it's priceless. You can't own it but you can use it. You can't keep it but you can spend it. And once it's lost you can never get it back. The average person lives 78 years life. We spend 28.3 years in sleeping which is 1/3rd of our life, but 30% of us struggle to sleep well. We spend 10.5 years of our life working but 50% of...

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Five things to learn from children

We need to realise that we don't know everything, a child learns from us and we need to learn from them . ​ 1. To see everybody as special and unique Have you observed the admiration these little beautiful creatures have in their eyes when they look at you? Everybody feels special when those beautiful eyes look at one. Children see everybody as being unique and that’s exactly we do but our lances are filled with selfishness. Thus, we can no longer see the reality of...

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Gift for Father

Here are some ideas to gift to your father. ​ ​ Chain: If your father loves value, keep in mind to gift something valuable. We talked about the number of channels on the site, including a Spanish style chain. Keychain: Use the silver wire and make a unique keychain. Hang the beauty of silver or a piece of molten glass or whatever you want from the chain. Money clip: I sold silver clip for only 0.5 cents. It is finished of pedestal metal. The cabin...

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Failure - Really???

Phase 1 - Born in an average middle class family - Was it a failure?......Not Really! When my thinking buds blossomed, I was one among many who had this question constantly dwelling in my mind - Why was I not born rich??? I was always thinking negative about how I have to sacrifice so many perks in life just because my parents cannot afford to give me certain luxuries. That is when I started arguing and became very demanding towards my parents, I wanted expensive goodies, wanted to dine...

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The Fear of Unknown

There was a girl, who had dreams. There was a girl, who wanted to live. There was a girl who wanted to cherish. She had a life which was unknown from the cruelty of world. She studied, she tried and finally was on peak of her carrier with everything her life wanted, a home, proud parents, car, respect, and friends but there was something that kept disturbing her. It all started with blank calls then she felt that someone was constantly keeping an eye on her. She tried seeking help from law...

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An Open Letter Of Love Across the Border

To my beloved Shazia, “Shazia has an Arabic origin. It refers to a girl who is ineffably beautiful yet devoid of the scorn that such beauty is usually associated with, a girl who is jocund yet sincere, a girl with great wit and knowledge yet she would be one of the humblest person you would ever come across...”, you broke into laughter. I kept on staring at you in awe as you presented that compendious account of the provenance of your name and I blurted out a line, “You are one of...

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Leaving The Herd

Stepping inside the shoes of a leader ​The word leadership has always been a subject of interest to many minds from generations. We live in a world where the lack of prominent leaders seem to be the cause of many issues that still needs to be tackled. With growing population, it is evident that the world needs more productive pioneers who takes charge rather than the ones who just beat around the bush. ​ Leadership is a concept that covers almost every aspect of our lives....

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What do you want to do with your life?

In this world, there is just one question which we can't answer though we know the answer. This is just because we don't trust ourselves. Pretty sure you must have asked yourself what do you want to do with your life and even must have got the answer in some part of your body but since you are not confident enough you couldn't hear your own voice. Get one thing in your mind that you have to be confident always, trust yourself and to be crystal clear with your thoughts. We usually juggle...

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Lights will guide you home

Being a specimen belonging to the specie named 'homo-sapiens', we humans tend to grow impatient way too fast. We can't bear waiting in the traffic without calling names and shouting on the AC to have shut down (because we had shut it down, still). Slow internet to us in many cases is worse than physical pain. We hate sloths so much that we have made them a synonym of laziness. On a day located not so far from today, I'd found myself waiting for a friend. Let me tell you a little...

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While Entering A New Standard...

Friends Spending times and sharing secrets create a link between two persons. This link is called 'FRIENDSHIP'. I really miss my old friends who spent times with me, shared thoughts but went to another schools. Although, I know their homes. I can meet them, make fun together, study with them but there was an amazing feeling in school. It is a worse feeling when a friend says I won't be studying in this school next year. We also have a hope that new friends will join our school. Teachers...

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They 'C' your Confidence

​What makes a person Attractive? The science of attraction is a major field encompassing various attributes that contributes to an attractive personality. An obvious explanation must allow us to conclude the attractiveness of an individual is proportional to a person's physical attributes​ and body structure. But, it turns out there's more to that. Every human is different on a psychological level. We all have our preferences to what we find alluring. For one person, it could be...

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Death penalty not a solution

The capital punishment to the minors' rapists may not be the solution to the malady, which can be better tackled by effective implementation of the existing laws, said a prominent child protection group today, a day after the Union Cabinet cleared an ordinance providing for the death penalty for the offence of raping girls below 12. The death penalty is not the solution and will not make our society safer. ​ Death penalty not the solution instead we have to consider such of...

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Face reading: The face of the heart can be known by looking at

For centuries, people have been trying to understand aspects of human nature only by looking at their faces. The ancient Chinese believed your face was a reflection of your inner spirit. In medieval Europe, beauty was considered synonymous with virtue, and ugliness was sometimes considered a sign of evil. No claims are made to prove that this is an exact science, but perhaps it is worth putting it in a similar group of things like astrology and palm reading. Socrates was once...

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Choose your path yourself

"Kosish krne walon ki kbhi haar nhi hoti or lehron se drne walon ki noka paar nhi hoti."  Always stay positive in every situation. ☺ When we go for the next step of our life, we have to choose only one alternative among various alternatives. This decision changes our life in every dimension and we dare to choose our own option. We fear if I choose this option I can fail in my life and we ignore our likes dislikes. We start to go to other person for help and for some advise....

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What Do These Dreams Signify?

All of us dream. Dreams symbolises represent our state of mind according to research.  1. Dreaming about a cow - Dreaming about a cow means something good is coming your way, your mind will come at peace and it is a blessing. Also it suggests purity. 2. Dreaming of a demon - It can come as anything that is frightening to you in your sleep, like dark figures. This shows that we have negativity inside us that needs to be cleansed by coming closer to God. 3. Elephant - An...

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Tujhe Sab Hai Pata Meri Ma

"Tujhe Sab Hai Pata Meri Ma"... Every time I hear this song, I just cannot control my emotions. Its flawless and just flows you with every emotion. Mothers are the power house of talent. Be it any work, difficulty in any situation, she is always there. No matter anyone will stand with you or not but she will always be by your side. On your mistakes, she will scold you but she itself will feel that pain. She plays so many roles without any obligation. Be your favorite dish,...

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Morning Habits for A Successful Life

 ​Did you know the secret behind having an incredibly productive day?  ​Remember when you were a kid and your parents would always tell you to get up early in the morning. You must have heard the proverb " Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise". ​Well you must know that your parents were indeed right. Research has shown that people who follow a healthy morning routine are better in terms of their health, energy and overall...

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Maa

बाहर रहता हूं, घर से दूर, अजनबियों के साथ। है कुछ दोस्त, जिन्हें अपना कह सकूँ, पर घर तो घर होता है।  जब भी छुट्टियाँ होती है, घर जाने का खयाल आता है । अंदर एकदम से खुशी की लहर उठ जाती है। पता होता है घर पर कुछ करना नहीं है, बस आराम करना है, सुस्ताना है और समय बर्बाद ही करना है। बावजूद इसके घर तो जाना है। कभी कभी तो सोचता हूं घर न जाऊँ। घर जाकर करूँगा भी क्या, यहीं पर रुकता हूँ, बचा हुआ काम खत्म कर लेता हूं। यहां रहूंगा तो आगे के काम को भी जल्दी से शुरू कर सकूंगा ताकि वक़्त आने पर सब...

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What do near death experiences teach us about life, god and everything else?

In most of the experiences that we have come across in our daily life about people who come near to death, either due to injuries or any fatal health conditions, they are considered clinically dead by the medical practitioners and doctors but after a while they wake up and to everyone this comes as a surprise. We have seen their perspective change after their experience. Imagine, meeting death, feeling like you can't revive, eyes closing and you lose consciousness. Also, in the books...

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God existence: A real incident

"When God steps in, Miracle happens" ​ Everyone in his or her life wonder whether the God exists or not, at one moment in their life. But when miracle happens, our all doubts gets wiped up. You can say this a story, article or my thoughts but actually this is true incident. Its up-to you what you want to consider it. I will give it my personal account of incident which gave me true evidence of god existence. Some five to six years ago this incident happened. I was...

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What is life?

What is life? Even one year old child knows what life is and even a 99 year old man knows the meaning of life. Each and every living being knows the value of life. When asked about the meaning of life, everyone has a different say on it. Some say it’s beautiful where some says it’s a curse. Some wants to live every day whereas some wants to die every day. Life is something what we aspire to do, want to achieve, and look forward to something. Life is beautiful in its own way. Blind people...

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Are We Really Living??

"The most important thing in life is to be happy-nothing else matters"- Carol Burnett (Beep- Beep - Beep) I wake up reluctantly to the sound of the most irritating thing in the world, the alarm ring. As and when I wake up every morning, I feel there is a huge bag of burdens on my shoulders. Why? Why the hell can't I sleep in the morning? Why the hell do I have to go to to work and exhaust all my energy for a shitty exhilarating project that would replace me in a day when I am...

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Life of a Indian farmer..

"If you are living today, thank a farmer". India is an agricultural country. About 67% of Indian people depend on agriculture. Farmers play very crucial role in India. Without farmers the country can't grow. In fact, they are the lifeline of the nation. Farmers produce food for the whole nation. Farmers cultivate crops like wheat, rice, sugarcane etc, they practice animal herding etc. Their job is really not easy. From the beginning of the civilization, the farmer is the...

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5 Habits That Make A Woman Feel Insecure In A Relationship

A relationship means a commitment. But as simple as it sounds, it requires certain compromises and gestures by both the partners to make it last a lifetime. As a man, it is essential to ensure safety and security of the partner. There are certain behavioral traits that can make a woman feel insecure. A healthy relationship is based on immense trust and faith. When that aspect is breached, it leads to a cascade of problems in the future. So, there are certain habits of a man that can make...

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Life

WHAT IS LIFE AND HOW DO WE SEE IT? Human life may not have been created with any pre-determined purpose, but this need not mean that it cannot have a purpose, nor that this purpose cannot be just as good as it is, if not much better than any pre-determined one. So the meaning of life, or our life is that which we choose to give it. Life along with everything else in this world, draws it’s meaning from you. You give life meaning. Life is what you make it to be. Life is to CREATE...

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7 Simple Habits that can ease your Work at Office

1. Exercise: Instead of programming your work-out time, for example, after the work schedule, you can schedule it in the morning. As per an expert, exercise improves your mood and energy. There have been studies done on employees who were doing exercise before work or on a business day.  It was concluded that employees can better organize their time and are more careful, says a consultant. Following the same studies, it was concluded that these employees are much more tolerant than...

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Characteristics of a good friend

Most people these days prefer to keep friends. It boosts their self confidence. Friends help us in every way of our life, from increasing our self esteem to helping us to find the right track. They motivate us. Some of the characteristics of a good friend are below :  1. They give a lot of help to you but don't expect anything in return. It seems like they love helping you and being by your side. 2. They don't turn the phone off when you call them. 3. They don't ignore your...

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Homophones - Just For Pun

The Chaucerian sonnets, the Shakespearean plays, Doyle's thrillers, Wordsworth's verses. They are the best examples that carved a niche in the world of writing. There were many fascinating things that attracted readers during the time when technology was still a layman phenomenon to many. Today things have changed and are still changing. People today have got glued to the smart means of entertainment like cell phones, broadband, internet etc where viewing pictures and motion have become...

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A Not-So-Mathematical Affair

It was the best of times, it was the worst of times. It was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness. . . * I was in eighth standard, there was a craze of competitive exams and even going to NASA was feasible. YES! A feasible dream. Win the NASA Olympiad and get a free ticket to NASA. I didn't give the exam. But after that I gave every exam excluding it. There was an exam of some GDI. I was provided with a form to fill which asked me to fill all the contact details and...

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SUCCESS – Not an accident

​ Life is an art of drawing​ without an eraser. LIFE and TIME are the world’s best teachers. Life teaches us to make good use of life and time teach us the value of life. Life is a game in which participating matters the most. Winning or losing is unpredictable but power of our hopes and self confidence can take us on the top of the world. To lead a successful life, it is never important to do different things but thinking differently is all what makes difference....

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How to save your time to do more productive things?

Most of us spend their time doing things that do not matter and that we are not supposed to do. Everyday we wake after snoozing our alarms 3-4 times. Then we check up our phone for any messages or notifications. Then with a feeling that we have to spend one more boring day, half-heartedly we go to our work. We are not happy with the way we are living and what we are getting. Most of the times we are focused on others' life. For instance, in morning you check your phone and look at insta,...

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A child's dream against reality

5th March 2018 Hey diary! You remember I'd told you about the day when I'd saved my pocket money to a staggeringly humongous amount of a thousand rupees? Remember how I was ecstatic beyond any measure, jumping in the air with unparalleled sense of achievement. I had saved a thousand rupees after all! It's one followed by three zeros, my first four-digit savings ever! But I'd saved it so that dad would add twice the money I was putting in and buy me what I believed would help me...

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Who should you follow?

Life is too short, don't waste it in doing things you don't like. You must have read this almost everywhere but think about it, isn't it true? So in these cases what do you do? FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS! Following your dreams is important (Ek hi toh zindagi milti hai) and planning to achieve it is equally important. If you want something don't cry for it, instead sweat for it.  ​ Many people will tell you that you can't achieve it but if you have dreamt about it, you should achieve...

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DON`T STOP

When we face failures while doing something let it be something we like, we stop doing it which is the biggest mistake of our life. If we are doing something we like, which makes us happy and are facing failures, we should never stop, instead keep giving our best because we never know when will failure get tired of you! Tire failure, you don`t get tired of it. Failure is the way which will lead you to success. Let us take few examples which portray never stop doing things which makes...

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How to be Successful in Life?

One study shows people see a slope as more difficult or lighter depending on their age, fatigue, or weight of the backpack they carry with them. As we see, we are much more influential than we like to believe. This can work against us or for us. A word from the elders says a prevented man is a trained man. How can we prevent this influence, and even more so, how can we use it for our benefit?  Between ourselves and the universe lie our senses. With those senses we recognize things...

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Is it okay to not have plans?

We often question ourselves whether it is okay to have a plan or not and let us find out the answer. We usually like to plan everything and work it out but sometimes we just can't and in such cases, it is totally okay to not have a plan. Now before going for famous examples, first let us consider me as an example. I didn't have any plans to start writing or do something similar to this, I just knew that I liked writing and reaching out to people so I started off with this which is helping...

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Failure

This article is about one of the most important topics of our lives and that is failure. You must be wondering how is it the most important part when it is the worst part of our lives. Experiencing failure is as important as experiencing success. Failure allows you to learn many things like where you went wrong and gives you an experience so that you don't make them again in future.  One who values failure gets success. One thing you can do is write down your failures and then ponder...

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Happy Space

Happy spaces coexist when they are in synchronisation with the physical, mental and spiritual health. When these three health are in balance, you can quote “I am in my happy space”. Happiness is a state of mind where there should be a striking balance among all three. If you are physically strong but mentally tensed you cannot call it happiness. Though mentally you are maintaining a balance but physically something is torturing you, your mind will cling there. So it is very important to...

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When Should You Start?

You all must be wondering what this article is all about. So, basically this is to tell you the right time to start working. If we go straight to the point, NOW is the best time for you to start working. Always remember age is no bar. No matter what your age is, if you're interested in something start work on it from now. A year from now, you will wish you had started that day.  Let us take an example and let that be you, yourself. Now suppose you want to start something and just...

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7 interesting curiosities around the money

Money rules the world", is an old German saying. For some it is the highest fortune to have a lot of money, for others it is like a curse. No matter with which eyes you see it, it is still a part of our everyday life. As a recognized form of payment, we trade it for products or services that we need to live. For payment, we use #geldscheine and coins. But the more and more popular is the cashless payment, such as bank transfers or credit cards. No matter where you live in this...

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Daughter or Daughter-in-law?

Dear daughter-in-law, you can never be a daughter to your in laws.” I know, I know. Your mother-in-law never acts like that typical “saas” in the daily soaps instead she pours all the love on you. Your father-in-law prefers you over his son whenever there occurs a situation like favoring one of you two (in a fun way). Your sister-in-law and brother-in-law goof around you in the same way your siblings did. But, but, but... There would have been many times when you didn’t feel...

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Are you nomophobic?

Do you turn around when you think you have forgotten your mobile phone at home? Are you stressed at the mere thought of being unreachable? Take care: nomophobia may be watching you ... ​ What is nomophobia? The NOMOPHOBIA, contraction of "no-mobile-phone phobia", is manifested by a panic fear of being separated from their GSM. The feeling of being always reachable, as well as the ability to make a call at any time, are particularly addictive. As a result, many...

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The Night at Taj

It was almost night, it has been 10 years now. Those memories still haunt me, I was just sixteen, we went there for a short vacation. I guess I have already seen my worst of fears. Dad went to check out the restaurant while me and mum stayed and relaxed. A bomb explodes in the lobby and it takes us by surprise, we both are panicked and fear stricken, her face becomes pale, there is a lot of chaos, shouting, screaming and another bomb goes off in a nearby area.  Mom clutches my...

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Your happiness and your office

A jobholder normally spends 6-8 hours in a day in the office which is 25–33% of the day and if the sleeping hours are excluded, it is obvious that maximum time of the day is spent in the office. So, it is very much important for all to keep themselves happy. People who often feels disturbance at his office frequently, also lives an uncomfortable life at home and thereby affects the happiness of all the members of his family. It should always be kept in mind that no one can make anyone...

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Exposing The Ugly Side Of The Internet

Let’s start with the basics - The Internet . What’s the first thing that pops up in your mind when you hear the word ‘Internet’? Some technical mumbo-jumbo perhaps? Or maybe something really rudimentary? Let your train of thoughts loose and come down to the most definitive yet basic definition of the Internet. It’s merely an inter-connection of servers . Servers that fetch you the information that you require. You hit a query in your browser, the query is processed on multiple...

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Why us?

What would be the reason behind this guys? Girls are blamed if they are out for late night parties, if they wear short dresses, if they are drunk and many others for which the list would never end. What was her fault here? She was not even mature enough to understand what rape is. This is India, where if matured girls are raped so they are themselves blamed for what happened with them. So shocking and depressing  to think is that only 8 years old girl  has been raped. It isn't...

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The importance of words whether spoken or written

I was suffering from throat pain recently and it was so severe that i could barely swallow any food or water and was finding it very hard to even talk. So naturally, I did try to talk less and for that I had to choose fewer words that make sense and help others understand me and this was not always easy. This process made me think quite a bit and I did realize few truths which have so much significance in our daily lives and the way we treat people. One such truth which I realized was,...

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Emotional turmoil

Life is a roller coaster ride with the series of emotions. It gives you chance to be in every character and face every emotion. The emotional journey is always excruciating and painful. The feeling of happiness and joy always tastes sweeter after this journey. Humans tends to see some dreams, instead they live that dreams with lots of future plans and desires. One fine day, the dream is shattered making you realise “Tum sapne dekho but uske pure hone ki asha mat karo”. Again now your...

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India - What has happened to you?

''Don't change so people will like you. Be yourself and people will love the real you." Our classical scenario has changed since the immigration of British in our country. Exchanging of ideas took place within the span of almost 200 years. As technology developed in India, the lifestyle also changed rapidly. India must walk on its own shadow-we must have our own developmental model. Why should we depend on others? India is a great country in which every religion finds a home. Let...

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Turmoil - A story for values

Dear reader, It has been a while since I started this unique journey of understanding oneself and what being your true self actually reveals. But although I had some Eureka moments, most of them resulted in failure. I tried everything that adds up to being a good individual. Spirituality videos, meditation, health, compassion, kindness and all the virtues that become part of our values, I tried to imbibe but all to no avail. After many attempts at failing to keep my anger at bay,...

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Letter to Discomforts

Hello Mr. Discomforts, I know you belong with me but I will give you full respect, and treat thee with a name thy can be comforted with. As you know, I write fictitious letters only when I’m really emotional or really pissed off . And you certainly know that you’re not something I’m gonna emotional about. I’ve a very sincere and polite question to ask you. Why do you even bother to exist? What would’ve happened if you never faced the daylight except for me being more optimized...

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Void in my heart

Hey diary, it's 23rd November. "Castle of glass" was playing in another tab of Firefox. After submitting my assignment, I opened another tab on my favorite browser. My fingers typed with the desperation which could easily be confused with that of a drug addict's. I typed "fa" and pressed enter. Google took me to Facebook. He knows me better than most of the ape-descendant species whom I happen to call "friends". I'd only began my midnight mindless scrolling when...

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The story of my relationship - Part 2

So the time moved forward and my world grew bigger with it. At the age when we are called 'teenagers', the world changes a lot and that too very rapidly. And we start to figure out what, when, how, where and why for everything. Even for the things which really shouldn't matter for us. But these are important because it is all a part of the process called 'learning'. And I learnt a lot after falling in love. So I fell in love with a girl which was a great experience at starting but later...

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Does Social Networking Helps us when we suffer from Anxiety?

In today’s hectic world, all of us happen to have a hard day at office or at home or get worrying and disturbing news and do not find the time or the mood to call a friend and share our feelings. In such circumstances, social networking sites and micro-blogging networks have significant value. In such moments, it acts as a tool that reduces anxiety, as per a recent study.  Social networking sites are beneficial to people suffering from anxiety disorders. People suffering from...

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Dolu Meeting His Girlfriend

A watch less Dolu reached his girl friend's house watchfully for the 1st time to find she wasn't around. He gets to have a quick glance of her house. He finds a mirror bisection giving him a symmetrical view of what he saw. A sleeveless T-shirt hanging on the hanger which had "MOM ANA" printed on it, a trouser hanging on a nail near to the T-shirt, a clock, a blue pen lying on the table, a table lamp which wasn't switched off, a couple of books to read and a post-it along with...

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Today's relationships

 Today relationships are falling apart. One can find many reasons for it. I am stating a few of them. Greediness : Money is a thing which has a power to change anyone. People make friends for money. People keep relation for making money. For land :  We can see that many brothers or family members fight for owning land. In this case, poor people are better as they have no land and thus, no fight. They earn together. For revenge : There is also a very strange reason...

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Adam calling Eve and The Breakfast Count

Something that causes us to feel confused because they cannot be comprehended, like an enigma - a person or a thing that is difficult to understand or explain. They are nothing but puzzles. Puzzles attract our brains. They make our brains think and work. The purpose of any puzzle is to serve the human brain to its maximum utility and for things for which our brain is designed. And, puzzles are the best work-out to get them tested and moving.  ​ Adam calling Eve... Adam...

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RIP Braveheart

It was a sad, sad day indeed! She was just a girl trying to get home after a movie. RIP Nirbhaya which means braveheart in Hindi. Braveheart she was indeed! Her fault: She was born in a country where Goddesses are worshipped in temples but killed in the wombs or their birth is mourned. "Incredible India": Where daughters are not safe inside the womb, nor outside it... Her crime & punishment: Her trip to a South Delhi mall to see a film with a friend ended in her...

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Be a Giver

“What is the use of living, if it not be to strive for noble causes and to make this muddled world a better place for those who will live in it after we are gone?”— Winston Churchill There is so much distress and poverty in this world. Numerous organizations have been working relentlessly to make this world a better place. PETA and PFA are working against cruelty to animals, Akshay Patra is providing balanced mid-day meals to under-privileged school going children, Art of Living is...

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Mis(takes) - L(earn)

It seems just like yesterday. I went to my dad with a simple query. He refused to answer it. Immediately, there was a frown on my face, not understanding the cause of the refusal. As I turned to leave the area, he called out to me. With a simple hand gesture, he signaled me to sit beside him. He asked me, "So, what was your query?”. Happy to have received help, I asked him my query. He refused once again to answer and asked me to find it myself. He was not in urgency. He waited for...

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Tears are important

Weeping is the best way to release the sorrow or stress. Do you know tears are the best way for expressing the pain of your heart? Tears come out from the eyes in both conditions, first when you got a lot of pain and second when you are very happy.       When your heart is broken by the causes like someone who was very special for you suddenly left you alone in the croud of world. S uddenly your dreams of being someone special are broken by your bad performance. ​ You are...

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Do you defend your thoughts?

Almost everyone lives in his/her own mental shell created over years, right from birth. Soldiers kill terrorists. Soldiers defend why they are right and the terrorist defend themselves when they kill soldiers. People eat meat and defend themselves, the vegetarians defend themselves. People are hurt, animals are hurt, plants are hurt - and whoever is hurt becomes a victim. Everyone defends their accumulated nature and the byproduct thoughts. If you do so, just ask yourself once - Who is right?...

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Asifa

We all know how Asifa Bano, a 8 year old girl was drugged, raped and strangled to death. According to the crime branch report , the purpose of the accused to do such heinous act was to dislodge the Bakharwal community from the region. This is the same community which had taken stand in favour of our country historically. Accused had some disagreements with some people from the community in the past.  ​ What makes this case so special? Were there no cases of child rapes...

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Letter to Saddam Hussain

Dear Saddam Hussain, You must be sleeping peacefully wherever you were buried. But look at your mistakes, people are still paying for it. Your mistake was nothing but standing up for your people's rights, equality, secularism, nationalism and development for your own country. Your mistake of standing up against a bully, not paying heed to those warnings made this whole mess possible. Just in case, we all wonder what would've happened if you just would have decided to step down once...

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Mob Culture

When Roman Empire was at it's height of power, its Emperors and powerful men were not afraid of anything but the Mob. It was the Mob which decided which gladiator will get to live or die after defeat in the fight. Even during the period of Rashidun Khilafah, it was the Mob of the people which killed third Great Khalifah, i.e., Usman R.A., and set the chain of events which ultimately led to the first civil war in the history of Islam. Such mob culture start with some...

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I was wrong! Too much technology is ruining lives...

Only four years back I was a team promoter. Online networking should be the immense seek after popular government. I know since I told the world so. I said in 2014 that nobody could anticipate where this transformation would take us. My decision was tidied with idealism: a superior associated human race would figure out how to better itself. I was just half right: no one could for sure have anticipated where we have wound up. However, my hopeful guess was totally confused. Web-based...

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Memories - I bet you will relive your school days

It was a period when there was no teacher in our class... The students started talking to each other in a very low voice. But when the whole class was talking it was like somebody had just hurled a stone at a honeycomb🐝. It reached the corridors and then the staff room. The class teacher came running to the class, stood at the door for a second, watched the whole class in a nano second and shouted... Where is the class leader? And there the leader was playing pen...

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You Happened

Each time I know you a bit more, I admire you a little more & with all regards I find myself farer from the fact that one day I'll lose you. The  fact  became reality, we lost each other, but the mutuality we had, won't fade, those thing's, the feelings we use to share, won't fade. But we sue to ' the fact ' and here we are walking different paths, we keep wondering, thinking about that one step that gone wrong and we ended up here, we keep wondering and wondering...

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3 Reasons Why Positive Thinking Is Just Not Enough!!

These days all you hear wherever you go is BE POSITIVE.  Be positive about your future, be positive about your dream & goals, be positive about your results, be positive this - be positive that, but is being positive enough? Personally, I believe, being positive is a crude and naive statement one can make if you are going through some adversity / hard time or trying to change your life for the better. Don't get me wrong, I'm a guy who loves being positive and will recommend others...

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Sweet Mystery

Hey you, sweet mystery, may I be bold enough to unfold you? Surely you wouldn’t mind… You look at your surroundings, your gaze studying. You want to figure out everything at once don’t you? It’s that same gaze that reeled my in. Something about it, made me surrender. It got my soul to scream at me, ”Let him figure you out!” Then again there are times, when you look off into the distance. It’s when your mind’s trying to grasp thousand things at once. From why the sun shines to what to...

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The Vultures have descended on Asifa

There is anger. Lots of it. And as more & more details emerge of the gruesome rape & murder of an 8 year old child in Kathua, that anger increases exponentially. This anger has manifested itself in many ways. Through articles, posts, placards, sketches & in some cases through mere silence. But some people have used this anger for a completely different purpose altogether. To denigrate Hindus, their Gods & India, the very country they swear allegiance to. And this has given...

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QUOTES...

Quotes are funny, quotes are inspirational. Whatever they mean, however they sound like, they are worth reading. They sometimes give us ideas, they sometimes give us thoughts to think and make us blink. They are personal, they are professional, they sound quite philosophical and mostly practical too. They can be taken in any form, as an advise, as a suggestion, as a moral or even a learning for a lifetime. Here are some quotes worth reading, that may make you think in pursuit of your...

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Replying to someone who wrote...

While indulging with the social networking sites, we find many contacts, communications, videos, blogs etc. The very common and the important ones are the thoughts expressed. It's sometimes very interesting to read as they reflect our own life. Sometimes they are very funny and don't make sense. But still we can't ignore and just go about reading it. Sometimes the ideas are such that we would really get tempted to reply to them no matter what they would think. Here are some of the...

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Don't be Sorry be Ashamed!!

We are not allowed inside a temple when we are on our periods but we are raped inside a temple for days. We are worshipped by countrymen in different forms but fail to command basic dignity from our male counterparts. WE ARE WOMEN, WOMEN OF INDIA. They say ours is an incredible country. Yes it is. What happens here can’t happen anywhere else in the whole world or even in hell. A half-naked priest in the temple gets offended by the sleeveless blouse of a woman, the length of our clothes...

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20 Tips for a Happy and Contented Life

Our life is short. How long a person will live... no one knows since it is hidden from our knowledge and perception. In such a scenario, is it not necessary for us to lead a happy and contented life and also make others happy? ​ Here are some twenty tips for the same: 1. Be aware that you have only one life. It is not a general rehearsal. So take advantage of it. 2. With each experience, stay positive and try to see the good side. 3. Live in the present,...

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How I learned about politics

I'm a 22 year old writer, pretty old but don't judge me by age, I know politics and by the way I'm writing about my experiences only yaar so don't judge me. I remember it was mid June when my Papa and other colony mate uncles were discussing cricket and they switched to the haunted "daayan" matter so swiftly that for a while I thought that in cricket ground some supernatural things happened, and suddenly from this topic they switched to upcoming "monsoon"...

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Opportunist Media

First of all I request you all to read this article till last line. These are solely my views about how media takes on a topic.Thank you! The dirtiest and probably the most prosperous time in business language of Indian Media is now. Without wasting much of my and your time, I would straight away keep my point. I'm not actually surprised for the first time by media's dirty games for publicity and money. We have not forgotten how media turned a heroic "Karni Sena" to a villain on...

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Uncouth to the youth

What may be "a good" to one, may be "the worst" to another. It creates a hyperbole, if we say perceptions do not matter. Each perception is a seedling needs to be watered, what we do is to deter its growth. Like from a seed to plant, it takes time to progress. To each opinion there always comes an 'against' rooted itself, a 'for' never comes so easily. Age gaps are usually we can count as a reason behind the perceptive difference between parents and youth. Taking a glance...

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Understanding the Faultless Path of Faith

“To one who has faith, no explanation is necessary. To one without faith, no explanation is possible.” — Thomas Aquinas Faith is a vast concept and its definition can pertain to complete belief or confidence in life or god or religion or prayers. It is a wide, inclusive embrace which brings love and trust through our intuition, we tune in, we listen. No matter what belief system we develop, deep inside we all live by some degree of assurance that what we hope for will actually...

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Inspiring stories

I was just surfing on our social website Facebook and care across a page “Yours Wisely” by Nithya Shanti and really found inspiring stories and thought of sharing them. Please visit this page to keep you inspired. ​ Stop Worrying Once in a jungle there was a pregnant deer who was strolling around and suddenly realised that the time of giving birth is near, so she founded a secluded place near swift flowing river. Just then she was surrounded by atrocities all around. Dark...

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Beat the Blues

There are times when we feel too low and unhappy. Sometimes we feel blue for some reason but sometimes we become sad without any particular reason. Whatever it is but you need to get out of this unhappy state. Here are some simple ways to beat the blues and get back on track towards a happy and cheerful You. ​ 1.    Write your thoughts in a diary or a journal. 2.    Call up your best friend and vent it out. 3.    Cook your favorite meal or go out to...

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10 life lessons you can learn from Bahubali

Hello everyone! I hope everyone must have seen and enjoyed the movies Bahubali 1 and 2 - the story, drama, music and special effects. But did you try to learn something from the movies. In this article, we gonna learn life lessons from this movie. ​ So let's go!! 1) HAVE A GOAL AND NEVER QUIT- The lead character Shiva/Sivudu tries to climb the long waterfall mountain right from his childhood. With the curiosity to know what's their on the top, he tried and failed many times...

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Monsters on Land

There are monsters in the sea and the sailor needs to stay safe; the sailor needs to learn to fight; the sailor needs to hold his emotion to the confines of human boundaries. There is no way a monster could walk down the aisle and not eat up the audience; there is no way he'll get his flesh punctured with fangs and not bleed to death.  ​ On land there are different cases though; there are no sailors and no sea monsters. There is no ship and the risk of drowning. On land one...

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Does office work affect your health?

Do you think that your office work encroach on your personal life? Is it possible that the situations you live at home are the situations to make you see that there is a bigger problem ahead? We all know that stress and too much work in office has impact on our physical as well as our mental health. Of course, there are many other things that can interfere with our personal life.   In this article, I will talk about stress, its consequences and the solutions. Stress does have an impact...

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Make Your 25 Things-To-Do List

Have you ever felt lost? Or have you been feeling doubtful about the things you do? Then this is just the right article for you! Being on track and not losing hope is really a hard thing to do. When times seem so rough, some of us just choose to give up. But before things get out of hand, you must learn to make a 25 things-to-do list to keep your goals checked! Your 25 Things-To-Do List should answer these: 1. What must be done?  This is the "now" that should...

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6 Things You Must Do Before Turning 30!

WHAT IS WITH THAT AGE? The idea of turning 30 seems to haunt some people out of their wits. Turning 30 seems a joke till it happens to you!! Well, let us see some things that you should do before turning 30 so that you can celebrate your 30th BIRTHDAY without having anything to regret! ​ ​ ​ #1 VISIT FOREIGN LANDS Travelling to foreign places opens up your mind and exposes your soul to an unacquainted land. Foreign tours; be it with friends, family or colleagues from work;...

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My relationship with ''it"

Waking up and watching your loved ones sleep is often the best moment early morning. Before the world takes over and we are in a constant rush to run behind dreams, those few moments where innocence drools down their mouth is worth snatching early in the morning. I do the same thing. I reach out to my better half first thing when I wake up. You might think that  I am going overboard when I say that it is only when I feel the brightness radiating from him on my face that I am completely...

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Why Lonely Kids Love Teddys

Because, as gangly as you are, dirt ridden,  eyes out of stuffed sockets,  button nose only in memory - you were there.  When no one was.​​ When people say 'Fucking Suck It Up', they don't know the story.  They really do not. They do not know the accumulating frustration at being incompetent and unwanted and unloved. They don't know what it is to be lonely.  To stand dressed up at a gathering as a show piece to criticise at the age of five, being judged for reasons beyond control....

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Relationship..! Can people fall out of love

LOVE when we hear these four letter words somewhere someone's image vividly comes to our mind. Right! Its the most amazing feeling in the world - to be loved, to be cared and pampered but WAIT! What happens if someone start falling out from that love. Of course everything will be shattered to the other person. But will that be right to forcefully keep someone with or mentally blackmail someone to be with the person whom they don't connect anymore. To maintain a relationship always a...

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A Blind Date

It was my first date in a while. Actually, this was the second date I have ever been on. My first date was a disaster, with me being too shy to express myself and my date being too dominating. But I wasn't really looking forward to this date. I had no clue how to behave or what to talk about. If there was something that I hated other than people trying too hard to make a conversation, it was awkward silences. And I was sure the evening had an abundance of both in store for me. I was...

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To Vote or Not to Vote - For Narendra Modi

With 2019 round the corner, every Indian is now an election pundit. And if by chance one isn’t, they definitely will have an opinion about who is winning 2019. I am no different. I too have an opinion, but being active on Social Media, I am also aware of the perceptions & theories floating around. And presently, one can’t escape the ‘Modi has not done enough’ narrative that us being peddled in full flow. I say peddled, because the people promoting this narrative have based this...

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How to Deal with Burnout?

The demands of everyday life - work, family, accounts - everyone can slip. Stress, exhaustion, depression and lack of interest in normal activities for long periods of time are the hallmarks of exhaustion. Attrition can be prevented, but if you learn to manage it, you can improve your present and your future. Recognize the signs and trade with exhaustion. Physical signs and symptoms of exhaustion • Feeling mostly tired and empty • Reduced immunity, getting sick • Headaches or...

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11 email habits that may make people hate you

The way of communication between the users of day-to-day smartphones is also changing. Personal and professional conversations via email, a few years ago, have now started on WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, iMessage and Google Hangouts. email has changed by rapidly changing technology. But among all this, you must also remember that the value of email will always be higher in professional world. Use of email for formal negotiation in office is more comfortable and reliable than other means....

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One with oneself

In the world that thrives along the fast lane, surrounding oneself with their closest pals may be a sort of escapism to help ease out the dizziness resulting from moving at an incredible pace, blindly at competition with one another, ignorant of neither the destination nor the aftermath, let alone give the aspect some thought, and most importantly become one with the river of others, perpetually flowing towards something of greatly abstract nature, put together in a seven lettered word...

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The story of my relationship - Part 1

Nowadays, being in relationship and yes, it is not marriage I am talking about, seems to be the most common to be discussed about. Less as a need and more as a trend, relationships have become just a 'status' to be shared among everyone. Some are crying that they are single and those who are not, are mostly going through situations for which they might were never meant to be. Though, how can I possibly say these? Do I have some base for words? Yes, I do. And not anyone else but...

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How to mastermind a suspense story?

Writing a suspense story is just like writing any other plain, genuine story or an essay. Every story or an essay has mainly three ingredients or rather classification or parts. For instance, an essay comprises of introduction, body and conclusion. The body may be elaborate, vast with many instances and denoted by paragraphs, however, the introduction and the conclusion should be quite precise and to the point. Especially the conclusion, which matters a lot. The conclusion should not...

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How to ace the race called ‘Life’?

​It has been a month since I have been hooked onto an addictive past time: a regular yet super charged up bike racing game; the first time I attempted a ride, it ended too quickly by a disastrous collision with a car speedily racing from the opposing lane! Well, that car could have slowed down, I am meant to be in racing mode, not them, I thought to myself! But the starter ride’s meant to be this insanely imperfect because we are ignorant about the ground rules of the arena! It made...

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A Letter to My Love (Part 4)

Dear Love, (I won’t take your name as I promised to you) It has been more than 4 months that I am not writing a letter to you! So, should I start with ‘Sorry’ or you forgive me? Anyways, I start with my apology & hope that your anger will be less! It was great meeting of ours in an evening when the sun sets to vanish on the earth for the day & we are with two cups of tea in a restaurant along with some gossips! The meeting was worthless,...

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How to give advice based on need and not experience?

As an Indian and a proud one too, I am no exception to the one quality that is common among people who belong to this great land, which is voicing our opinions on almost every matter that we come across. We have taken our Freedom to Speech to a whole new level. Phrases like "This is how things should be done", "In our days these were forbidden, and look at our lives, do you think it has turned the wrong way?", "We say because we care" are common. If a person is...

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How to manifest evil?

Evil - Something that is inevitable to the society, Something that would seize to exist forever. The necessary vice coming out of human acts, thoughts, social taboos and fallacies. They are nothing uncommon, but are the social evils inherent in our factual world, inherent within every human. Evil - A universal necessity. Crime, prostitution, beggary etc., what mankind has seen for ages, they can never be eradicated from any society. Simply for the fact that they are our blessings...

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Sinfully yours

Delinquency has this certain undeniable lure to it — it makes you do things that happen to be morally wrong & ethically unjust. Depravity often makes you do things that you would have never imagined of doing — no rapist has ever dreamt of molesting a woman in his formative years, did he? — or, it makes you go in denial in doing things that you ought to do — a woman is being hit & harassed in the open; how do I even care? I am just here to enjoy the show! See my point here?...

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Beat The Heat

April is all here, with this new financial year has also started and the most famous line is all popping "Yaar kitni garmi hai". The scorching heat is evaporating water from our body. To maintain the equilibrium our body demands more water. I am here to give a fresh outlook to beat summer with some tips to beat the heat. 1. Healthy Recipes by Shilpa Shetty Kundra On her channel "Art of Loving Food" she had thrown some light on this nutritionist sunshine lollies which...

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How to write a suspense story?

Most of us are fond of stories. Some stories are exciting. Some stories have morals. Some stories have various shades of life. Some stories are based on reality. Some stories are inspired. Likewise, some are thrilling with an air of suspense. Some are very dilemmatic and ironical in the end. A series of unexpected events keep us engrossed while reading such a story. Every suspense story is based on logical deduction. That is deductive reasoning. We need to first understand the...

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How to be truly invincible?

Simplicity and power are often found in opposite corners. Never really a match but surely a married couple. If you observe all the great leaders in the world, you will find them indulging in progressive thoughts rather than milestones which they have already crossed. They are always looking for more. Always simple but always more. The crux of the following piece of art is to broaden your perspective and to make you realize that YOU can truly hold enough power that can change the world....

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What is truly yours?

It's amazing that we live in a world full of lies and still we are happy. We are happy because we think that we are not alone. But is that the case? We can get condolences from our friends and family but they will not help you every time. The problems of life must be dealt on our own. That's what will give you confidence. Confidence of being self-dependent. If you rely too much on your friends and family, you will get hurt badly. They will not help you because they are not able to or...

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Ships that sink : Relationships..!!!

As the clock struck 21:06 on the timepiece that was hanged on the wall, I glanced at the message that I have sent on my phone to this wonderful woman, which said that I liked her. The moment two grey color ticks turned blue, I started to feel the excitement about the reply I would get. I was on the edge of my seat, when I saw the word typing on the left hand top corner on my phone. Exactly after 35 seconds, I got a message which read “Sid, I didn’t except this from you” . I was a...

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Is it alright to believe our eyes?

We all are familiar with the term evolution,right ? In simple layman's language, it is the transformation of different species into more advanced forms which results from their adaptation to their surroundings. But there is more to evolution than one can think about. Have you ever wondered that this evolution has also led to the evolution of our most significant sensors, the eyes! When life started on earth, the very first living species or the micro-organisms had no eyes or anything...

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Education being sold

March, a month always make us remind of our school time. A high time... EXAM time... Final time for Board Exam...CBSE papers are round the corner.  It makes me remind of my school time and my appearance in XII Board Exam of CBSE. Morning news!  While I was having my tea in a very relax mood, I heard the news that today CBSE XII Economics Paper has leaked in Delhi before the exam has started. All media channels were covering the same news, of course it was a big news. It's just not...

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The land of celebrity holy men

This article does not mean to hurt anyone’s or any community’s religious sentiments. I am not against any religion; I only tried to point out the misuses of common people’s religious faith. Many a people believed in the western world that India is the land of priests, sages, and monks. I, on the other hand, like to call this country, the land of celebrity holy men; and as an Indian national, this is not something that I am proud of. Not too long ago, the nation was shocked when...

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Don’t sleep ma

Sleepless nights “Oh my beautiful sleep Where have u gone Those Days are lost away When v used to hug each other Throughout the night In d dim light” It’s all about being mother,  No adequate sleep for mommy. Just tossing and turning throughout d night. That’s been a fantasy for now, Since I entered into d mommy world, I lost my sleep Earlier there was lot of little moment in d day that allow me To take several nap whenever I feel like, But now story has...

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Improve your Skills to Succeed in Life

Logical skills are very important for achieving success in life. Virtually, it is important in all walks of our life, from games to business to art. Career paths like athletics or art are generally considered as intuitive by the public in general. Having the basic knowledge in logical skills can make the difference between the most important and reasonable success.   To avoid pitfalls and take advantage of the opportunities that comes our way, the ability to diagnose conditions...

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How to go about improving your skills?

If you want to become a film star or singer, you have to collect information and know for yourself about how a person becomes a film star or a singer. Reading biographies of great film stars and singers is one way to get some idea. Finding people in the business of acting and singing and trying to decide on their methods, following news about their business is yet an another way.   Spending your each available moment on the lookout for extra information about the film industry may...

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How to overcome writer’s block?

All of us have experienced writer’s block at some point of time. Sometimes we just run out of the words to write or we run out of the ideas to write about or simply run out of inspiration. Writing is a way we share our thoughts with the world but sometimes we are just stuck in a rut. There is hardly any writer who hasn’t experienced writer’s block at some time or the other. Writer’s block can be very frustrating. You want to write but just keep staring at the blank page or the blank...

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Five Tips On How To Travel Without Losing Your Job

A significant number of us have the movement bug, particularly now with the Internet and online networking making such a major ordeal out of it. In any case, it doesn't detract from the way that voyaging is fundamental to our emotional well-being and a decent work-life adjust requires every one of us to be rationally normal. Which at that point makes it fundamental for us to move all things considered, not withstanding the purpose of voyaging and seeing new places at that...

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How Indian women are subjected to suffer?

India stands at number 50 in the list of "Best countries for women" reported by US News and Wharton University. It is matter of shame that India stands at number 50. Really it is a matter of condemned, coming through the history of how women have been sidelined to a corner in the country and deprived of access to major human rights. Lewd messages, sexually explicit texts messages, blank calls from strangers, blackmailing and stalkers, even spam calls from marketer are...

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Want to be Outstanding in What you Do?

If you want to be outstanding in what you do, you have to do it almost instinctively and become insightful. Learning new things is done in the prefrontal cortex of your brain and works through your work memory i.e. short-term memory. This memory is used to make informed decisions and to achieve goals. However, once you are proficient enough to turn a skill into a reflex, it becomes your subconscious.   Thus, you will free up to ninety percent of your work memory, and can do more...

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In search of...

 ​ IN SEARCH OF...!!! “YES YOU CAN” – Barack Obama These inspiring words by Mr. Obama always give a positive hope to chase your dreams and become a successful person. ​ Everybody of us is behind something or the other. Some are lost in the excellence of this material world and are searching for peace. Those who have tranquillity are looking for money or pursuing something they don’t want. So, in this material world, nobody has fulfilled aside from the monks....

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Dreams & Motivation: A Different View

Over the past centuries many people (influential people) have talked about dreams and motivation, I am going to give a shot to be one of them. I am not going to talk about how and how your dream can change your life or how being self motivated is the best way to achieve things but I am going to go ahead and reach those, who I think are majority, and you would agree with me that it might not be the path for some. That however much we try, our dreams do not seem to convert to reality...

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Say no to mean people

It always makes me wonder why people have such a negative attitude towards others. Why is it that, few people repeatedly try and offend others, be it about looks, job, children, pregnancy, marriage and the list goes on and on... Why is that they are super excited about commenting on lives of others? Is it because they cannot digest the fact that someone else is much more happier than they themselves or are they showing some sort of a hidden frustration of not been able to achieve what...

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The closed room

I walk a thousand miles, rudderless, unaware of what I left behind and what is yet to come. I am heading to a direction I haven't seen before, as if I have this demigod figure guiding me to a place I have left my treasures since time unknown. I walk and walk, and find myself caged inside a closed room. A closed room we often long for, the one which puts you into solace, at a handful distance from this world. Dark vacant and still so vibrant, the closed room, with no windows and no...

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7 Simple Tips to Make your Life Easy

Use the lifehacks and make your day to day life easier. There are many practical tips and tricks that save you a lot of time and simplify your day to day life without much effort. ​   Here are seven life hacks you can use for your advantage: 1. Once the drainpipe is blocked, a glass of cola can help in clearing the blockage. Just pour a glass of cola into the drain and let it soak in. Then rinse with warm water. It works only with light dirt. This also works with...

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Having an IITian father

My father is an IITian and the best part I didn’t know that till I was in 9th standard. Let me explain. He grew up in a village with 4 other siblings, moved to a city called Amravati in Maharashtra. Studied and went to IIT Kanpur. After post-graduation got a job, then left that job just to be with his family in Amravati and started a business. He is an extraordinarily smart guy, has knowledge about almost every topic, reads a lot, doesn’t drink, smoke or any other things. Now the guy...

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Being an Eunuch is not a choice

Today I would like to talk about the people around us with whom we often encounter but ignore. They are the people who do not return home after their whole day's work because they do not have a home. They are abandoned by their families. They are referred to as the third grade people. They are the people whom we meet on the traffic signals asking for money and giving blessings in return. Yes, I am talking about the Eunuchs. Transgender is a more familiar word but Eunuch is a bit different...

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What does a working woman "stop" after having Kids?

Have you ever thought about the things that you have stopped doing just because you became a mother?? To become a mother is the best thing that can happen in a woman's life. But not to forget that along with this happiness comes a lot of sacrifices and compromises.  The foremost being that you can't spend time for yourself. All the schedules are now based on the child's routine and we somehow accept the fact that our life is no more ours. We stop going out with friends cause the guilt...

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3 Habits which you’ve to develop in order to gain success

Success doesn’t come to you unless you become success conscious. It’s the very important phrase in order to gain success. If you want to succeed in any of the fields you require 3 basic needs which I’m going to tell you.    1.  Knowledge                          2. Skill                                   3. Desire Before doing anything, you must contain each & every knowledge about any particular thing. Basically, knowledge is , what to do and why to do . Second, skill is how...

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BEDTIME PRAYERS Prayer 3 - A prayer for skin problems

​Namaste beautiful and powerful souls. Thank you for being here to pray with me tonight. Tonight we have a special prayer for skin problems. You know what, almost all of us suffer from these problems in some form or the other. Some of us are on long term treatment while some of us suffer from daily problems like burns while cooking or ironing clothes, skin rashes, allergies etc. Believe it or not skin problems greatly affect our mood. They can be so frustrating that we feel intolerant...

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THE EVENING SILENCE Prayer 3 - Take it and take care of it

​Good evening wonderful souls. Thank you for being here to pray with me this evening. This evening's prayer is one of my favourite ones and I use it to seek divine guidance whenever I am freaking out. In this prayer we are going to surrender again. There are so many situations in our life when fear grips us and we feel as if nothing is under our control. The divine truth is that nothing needs to be in our control for it is being taken care of by a power much greater than us. Lets...

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BEDTIME PRAYERS Prayer 2 - A prayer for confusion

​Namaste beautiful and powerful souls. Thank you for being with me here to pray. This prayer is for clearing all the confusion. We may be confused about some decisions we need to take, changes we need to embrace and things we need to let go off. We may be wasting our time and feeling guilty about it. But at the same time we have no idea how to deal with this. We feel confused about our feelings for someone or we just can't figure out our next basic step. We feel confused about...

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THE MORNING STILLNESS Prayer 8 - A prayer for when you are freaking out

​Namaste beautiful and powerful souls. Thank you for being here to pray with me this morning. Today's prayer is a special one for the times when we are freaking out. It is going to help you shift your focus to love by letting go of all control. ​So lets begin. You can get down on your knees as a position of surrender or you can sit in any position you are comfortable in. You can pray to any form of divine power you worship. ​ Dear God,                         Thank you for...

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THE MORNING STILLNESS Prayer 7 - A prayer for procrastination

​Good morning beautiful and powerful souls. Thank you for being here to pray with me this morning. This morning, lets talk about procrastination. Why cant I just get things done? I know that we all struggle with this. We just can't get ourselves to take some action. Sometimes it gets so bad that we feel as if something is holding us back from taking action. Why do we procrastinate? Why don't we take action? What do we keep waiting for? ​It maybe a simple household chore or some...

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Let it go!

Mobile phones have become an inevitable part of everyone's life including children. Are we right in letting our children cultivate this habit? Definitely no, the reason why I am so confident is because of what I have experienced through parenting my 5 year old son. It is hard to admit, but hell yes, I am the reason he started using mobile phone at a tender age. What started of as a harmless activity to help me finish off with my chores, help me to feed my son without any hassles, turned...

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Importance of Regularity

Today I am going to discuss about “Regularity and its importance in our life”. It has a great place in our life and if we understand its importance in our life then off course we get an unusual, unique, important, useful and glorious thing in our life which is known for all by the name “Success”. So here, I am going to start discussion on its importance, means “Importance of Regularity”. Really, regularity has a great importance in our life. If we do any work regularly then it will...

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When You Love #1

"This article is for the people who can jump in front of a train to save their relationship, also for the people who feel like that essence of love is fading from their relationship..." ​ When you  love  someone, you want to fight for it, you want to put everything at stake,  and you just do it . Sometimes against the world, sometimes you fight with yourself, sometimes with them. But what about, when I just want to stop. What about, when I just want to  love , either...

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What is the concept of ToTD?

Thought of the day The best way to learn anything is to see things everywhere. It's just a phenomena which I use often. I'm 24 and I am student preparing for govt. job and I read a lot. When I want to learn anything deeply, I a make thought (ToTD) about it and put it on the white board right in front of me and see it over and over again, whenever I come in my room or go out or before sleeping or after sleeping. Soon after, my mind start taking actions in terms to complete that...

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My bundle of joy

Being a mother of two year old, I can experience on my own that breastfeeding is blessing for baby. The moment I gave birth to my little one, I even don’t know how to feed the little tiny baby who was screaming for feed. His very first voice that I heard gave me goosebumps. In second moment, I realised his voice bringing tear of joy, happiness in my eyes and make me realise that this is the feel of being a mother.  I asked the nurse, whats the matter?. Is my baby fine? Why is he...

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Life of a working mother

I am a working professional and a mother of two. I sometimes wonder if I am doing the right thing by balancing my professional and personal life. The fear of loosing out the balance between these two always puts me to stress. What are my responsibility as a mother and what are my duties as a professional ?? I always fight within myself to find the answer.  As a mother, I always want to give my kids the best and want to spent time with them. I want to be able to wipe their tears when they...

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THE MORNING STILLNESS Prayer 6 - A prayer for overcoming fear of abandonment

​Good morning beautiful and powerful souls. Thank you for being here to pray with me today. This morning we will be shifting our focus on fear once again. Fear is one of the most dominant negative rulers and prevents us from aligning ourselves with a state of love. One of the most bothersome fears is the fear of abandonment. We are afraid to be alone or rather left alone. We are afraid that by speaking the truth we will end up annoying some people and ultimately end up losing out...

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Copycats..they are! Beware..!

“Beware! They observe your actions, they don’t listen to your instructions.” I am not a parent, not even close to being a parent! :D Still, as a result of observation, I have ended up on writing a blog on this topic. Today I am going to disclose the biggest and the most important parenting and leadership lesson I have ever learned by spending my time with “Rihaan” the 2-year kid leaving next door. If you want anybody on this earth to learn something, just do it. Do it intensively...

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A BASKET OF LOVE Chap 9 - Own your NO

​Namaste beautiful and powerful souls. Thank you for embracing this enchanted journey. Lets begin this today by a beautiful excerpt from one of the books by the famous author Syma Kharal. ​" Own your no, no matter what the price so that tomorrow you can say an inspired yes to yourself." Okay, hold on, before your mind starts screaming, "Thats easier said than done" just read a little further. You see its not about being rebellious or bold, its about being loving, calm...

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A BASKET OF LOVE Chap 8 - Let it glow

​Namaste beautiful and powerful souls. Thank you for embracing this enchanted journey. Okay, so today I really wanted to talk about the shit thats going on in my life and maybe this resonates with some of you. ​So I have a lot of stuff going on in my personal life which I am currently struggling with. I am just trying to sort out the mess, hold on to faith, take care of my health and what not. And the last thing I want is people, even family members poking their noses in and definitely...

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A BASKET OF LOVE Chap 7 - Stop trying to solve this mystery

​Namaste beautiful and powerful souls. Thank you for embracing this enchanted journey. Today I wish to speak about the ultimate FEAR. It can be anything as in any outcome we are dreading. You know choosing love in all situations does free you from your agony but if there is one thing that keeps on getting back at you is insecurity. You see your fear had created a false zone of security around you and when you choose to move out of it, it doesn't always feel that comfortable. This is what...

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A BASKET OF LOVE Chap 6 - Its just plastic

​Hello everyone. Its so good to be in this journey together. The title of this article is picked up from the movie "Mean girls." In the last scene when the protagonist wins a contest and gets her crown, she recalls and talks about all the stuff that she along with other students did in a bid to win that crown which is nothing but PLASTIC. With that wonderful statement she breaks that crown and distributes the pieces of it among all contestants. ​I simply loved it. You know we...

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A BASKET OF LOVE Chap 5 - This shook me to the core

​Namaste beautiful and powerful souls. Thank you for embracing this enchanted journey with me. Today I wish to speak about the feelings and fears that we have when we come across any frightful stuff. It can be anything like the crimes in the country, someone suffering from cancer, images and videos of people and animals being tortured. All this shakes us up and we just can't get it out of our heads. We have fears and grievances like, "What has humanity come to? What if that happens...

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A BASKET OF LOVE Chap 4 - Lets have this conversation now

​Namaste beloved souls. Thank you for being here with me on this enchanted journey. I know and understand that every time we try to take one simple step towards choosing love, our fear rushes back to us in the form of that constant threatening voice in our heads. Its so hard to fight it off. So lets stop doing that. We don't need to fight off our fear or push it away. To embrace love does not mean to abandon fear. Its about realising that you are not your fear. Its about being your true...

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A BASKET OF LOVE Chap 3 - Why do I feel like crap?

​Namaste beautiful and powerful souls. Its feels so good to embrace this journey together. We are all striving to attain perfection in all aspects. We make plans, outline our goals, try to get things done but still at the end of the day something just doesn't feel good? There is a feeling of guilt and worry, fear and shame. We try to suppress these feelings by drowning ourselves in all sorts of distractions. But with time these feelings bounce back and that too with a greater impact....

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A BASKET OF LOVE Chap 2 - Energy Vampires

​Okay so many of you would have heard this term before and for those of you who don't know anything about it, this is exactly what you need to read. Vampires, draculas, vampire bats, the light fearing creatures, yes this is exactly what I am talking about. All right, before you close down your screen considering this article to be spooky and creepy, hold on and wait for a few more lines. Now let me quickly get to the explaining part. These energy vampires are basically sources which may...

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A BASKET OF LOVE Chap 1 - I am not here to change your mind

​ I AM NOT HERE TO CHANGE YOUR MIND. Guess what, this amazing line was actually the title of one of the bexlife vlogs. I was watching the other day and the same applies here too. Trust me wonderful souls, I am not here to change your mind neither do I intend on pushing you to change your mindset. I am only here to let the light flow in if you are willing to be cracked open. The simple thing is that maybe you are stuck in life or in a particular situation where you feel lost and...

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How your habits can change your life?

​ "If someone will write a book on you, what are the things that  you want in it?" This one thought make you to think about your present moment.... What you are doing right now? ... Thinking about someone better than you? OR Living your life for a better future?                               Here future is not just connected with you. It also changes your surroundings, to whom you are close too....family, friends...depending on your actions...

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A Spiritual Approach to Parenting

Home is the place from where we start our journey in life. Krishna Consciousness is the most important journey. A. C. Bhaktivedanta Srila Prabhupada, the Founder Acharya of ISKCON once said, “Of all the kinds of material attachment, love of the mother for the child is purest. It most closely resembles spiritual love, because it is the most selfless.” The Vedic Scriptures tell us that we should not become parents unless we can bring our children to a higher stage of spiritual life and...

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These types of men are most attractive according to women

*MEN WITH BEARD* When it comes to beards, studies have shown that the more hair, are the better. An Australian study found that the women prefer kind of men with heavy beard over clean-shaven men. *MEN WHO OWNS FAST CARS* Researchers have found that women may subconsciously change their perception of a man based on the type of cars he has. Similarly, women prefer a dominant and powerful partner and will often relate a man’s character or status with the type of car...

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A Good Resume gets you a Good Job

Writing a good resume can be crucial to ensuring the job you want. But how do you make an overview and a good resume? Here are some suggestions. What is a CV? CV stands for curriculum vitae. A CV should be a short and good summary of what you have done in your life such as schools and colleges attended, courses finished, previous experience if any and other relevant things.   From this, the employer will easily get an overview of your experience and what you can do when...

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Stop Godman Politics

A sad day in Indian democracy. There was a day 26/11 when Delhi was attacked by external terrorism and now 26 August 2017, we saw how some blind followers of religion damaging their own people and property. Nothing but a sort of Internal terrorism. # RIPCandleMarches There was a day when people were marching with candles in support of #JusticeForNirbhaya. And today, people are fighting among themselves to prevent a Rapist! How foolish.... The followers be like - Ram Rahim won't be...

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The 5 Seconds Window

The 5 Second Window! "Your decisions make you". But for being extra ordinarily successful in your life, you have to take tough decisions. You have to take those tough decisions every single day and every hour. They (decisions) could be like : What to choose: Study or T.V. ; Fb/Insta or Work; Sleep Or Study There could be many decisions like this in our day to day life, but 99% of the time, we choose the easy one. Because it's tough for us to get uncomfortable. Actually, that's...

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My Teachers - My Inspiration

Held me when I cried on the first day of school And patiently made me learn to finish my meal From nursery kid to a smart senior, You have gradually built me Scolded me and punished me for my follies And motivated me during my downfall Patted me at my achievements And made me discover my persona Made me well versed with those huge books  which otherwise would have  scared me Helped me shape and face this world Molded me to excel and impress Now, here I am...

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Benefits of worshipping Lord Shiva in Shravan month

Shravan month begins in July and ends in August. It is considered to be a very holy month according to Hindus and worshipping Lord Shiva during Shravan month is highly recommended. According to Hindu calendar, Shravan month is dedicated to lord Shiva. This year, Shravan month will start on 23rd July 2018 and will end on 22nd August 2018. Worshipping Lord Shiva during Shravan brings the most auspicious results. During Shravan month, Rudrabhishek pujas are performed by devotees to...

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The marketization of an art

While walking on a road, I saw an advertisement – “Come train with us in KARATE, we have the best teachers with whom you will be a FIGHTER just in 6 months.  ” After seeing this aforesaid advertisement, the first thing that came into my mind was the most famous advertisement of the ‘Fair and Lovely’ (as I’m a colored man and a student of Martial art), so appealing but false. ​ I took an interest in that school and when I arrived, a very tall and muscular man greeted...

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Self Defense Training Vs Reality

It all started when I had my first knife defense lesson in a local karate dojo [school]. My sensei [teacher] grabbed my hand in a quick motion, and threw me away with a technique called outward wrist turn [kotegashi].   I was so fascinated by experiencing how our anatomical weaknesses can be used for self defense and as they say in a lot of movies, how to use the opponents force against him. You can watch many instructional videos in YouTube about defense against knife or baton by using...

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महिलाएं आखिर क्यों बन जाती है बेवफा, यह है कारण

​ दोस्तों शादी एक औरत और पुरुष का प्यार का एक पवित्र रिश्ता होता है जिसमें रूठना मनाना और आपसी समझ यह बहुत जरूरी है बहुत सी बार ऐसा होता है। कि पति अपने ऑफिस कार्य किसी भी प्रकार के कार्य के होते अपनी पत्नी को समय नहीं दे पाते है जिससे उनके रिश्ते में नकारात्मक भावनाएं उत्पन्न होती है। परंतु इसका यह मतलब कतई नहीं है कि पत्नियां आप की मजबूरियों को नहीं समझती है किंतु आप को भी समझना होगा कि उसकी भी कुछ जरूरते होती है जो एक पति से उसे प्यार के रूप में मिलनी चाहिए। किंतु जब आपकी पत्नी...

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5 ways to manage life as a Corporate Slave

I have a bachelor’s degree. I have an MBA degree from an IIM. I am 25 years old. I am a corporate slave . I still remember the bright eyed version of myself, attending grad school, thinking that from this point onwards life will bring a whole new set of interesting challenges; challenges that were hard, yes, but exciting moreover. 2 years of carefree Masters, and 1 year of worldly experience after that, I can say without a doubt that I have joined the vicious net of corporate life...

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आप का बॉयफ्रेंड या गर्लफ्रेंड आप से सच्चा प्यार करते है?

​ दोस्तों आजकल हर मनुष्य की मन की बात को जानना बहुत ही कठिन काम है खासकर प्यार की बातें अगर कोई भी व्यक्ति आपसे सच्चा प्यार करता भी है या नहीं | मगर कुछ संकेत हैं जिनके माध्यम से आप यह जान सकते हैं कि आपके गर्लफ्रेंड या बॉयफ्रेंड में के मन में क्या है | यदि आप जानना चाहते हैं कि आप जिस से प्रेम करते हैं क्या वह भी आपसे प्रेम करता है तब आपको इस बात पर अवश्य ध्यान देना होगा कि आपके प्रेमी का व्यवहार आप के प्रति किस प्रकार का है हालांकि प्यार का मतलब प्रत्येक इंसान के लिए अलग...

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Prepare your Mind to Achieve Success

An old adage says ‘as inside, so outside’ or, in other words, there is nothing outside of me that has no matching part or mirror in me. This philosophy proves to be very true than previously thought. Not only do we work together and influence the surrounding universe, but it also influences us directly, automatically. The way we make out the surrounding universe is synonymous with how it influences us.  All the more, our predispositions, the emotional state that we live in, the fact...

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The Pursuit of Happiness

​What is happiness, and why do we constantly run after it? What does it mean to be happy? You may smoke a cigarette, because it gives you pleasure, but this does not make you happier, especially, if you acknowledge the fact that smoking is not good for your health. ​There are people, who fear that if they experience happiness, it will be soon taken away from them. They regard it as a temporary state, and are afraid to experience it, lest they lose it. They want to avoid...

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3 Simple Steps for a Happier Life

Happiness has many dimensions and many forms. Some people see it as something unstable and extensive while some other people see it more like a state of inner satisfaction and peace of mind. In spite  of the point of view of the people concerned, one of the common factors is that happiness is not static, but rather presents a particular enthusiasm.   One more feature common to those with a smile on their lips is the positive attitude and not the reactive attitude, the attitude that...

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3 Habits that Help you Work Efficiently

According to a recent study, people who wake up early in the morning and also take an adequate amount of rest are more productive than those who are late in getting up in the morning. More than seven hundred people aged 18 to 80 participated in the study.  They responded to various questions about their health, emotional state and the time of the day they generally get up. According to the study, the participants who wake up early in the morning are happier and healthier than those...

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Faith and Life Decisions

I grew up in an Indian God fearing hindu sikh family, and as routine till today we always visit Gurudwara once a month or sometimes even twice. From a very young age, I was inclined towards God, it was literally fed to me daily, in my conversations with my family.  As a child, when I had tough exams or depressing days, my parents would tell me stories about how H E  can always help us in unknown ways. I will get relaxed hoping HE will also fix it for me, and would leave my worries to him....

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Distance Relationships

​So why distance relationships doesn't work?? I was a type of lover who was involved in some serious type of relationship or I can say it a perfect relationship!! So as soon as our college life started, we both were in distance relationship and things started changing and our number of fights increased day by day. But we knew that neither of us will give up on each other and life was going fine till the day she gave upon me. We both were left in tears.  Sooner, I realised my mistake...

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Being Good at your Job

Most people will agree that the time when spending more time in office than at home was a prerequisite to being good at work is over. In fact, there is a totally contrary movement. It is much emphasized through organizational research. It proves the greater efficiency of employees who have active social life, practice extracurricular activities, develop hobbies, spend time with family, eat properly and live their lives beyond corporate environment.  It is the coming together to be...

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3 Tips to Ensure Efficiency at Work

Here are 3 tips to improve your concentration and ensure the efficiency you need to take control of your tasks and make your life and business more successful.  ​ 1. Set aside time to schedule for the next day: Lack of planning is one of the big problems that takes our time and makes us lose focus. A crucial point is the energy we expend to try to be productive during the time of the storm. That is why spending a few minutes every night to schedule the next day can give you...

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Index to a topper's life, You would feel happy u aren't a topper

I've been that topper girl since the very first standard. I've been told I'm intelligent. My parents are proud. My teachers are proud. And the relatives, they always have sure claims about "she's going to top that, oh it's not a big deal for her, it's in the genes u know blah blah."  I felt happy getting these compliments. ​Note the past tense? Yes I "felt" not "feel" at least anymore. It's now I realise that I was just a stupid freak. I realise that it's more...

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Good Habits

India needs only 10 runs to win the match and still there is 10 overs left and Kohli is on the pitch. “Can you tell me why are you waiting for India to win the match?”, my father asked when I said, “today India must win this match.” He says, “let Kohli do his work and focus on your own work”. Father will be father always! Suhana was offline and her last msg was, “Bye! Bye! Good night!” to her boyfriend, Rafiq. I saw Rafiq was scrolling his WhatsApp even after 15 minutes of his gf’s...

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जब बच्चे खुद ही अपनी बर्थडे पार्टी प्लान करते हैं...

जी मैं १० + साल के बच्चों की बात नहीं कर रही हूँ, मैं बात कर रही हूँ ४-८ साल के बीच के बच्चों की | आजकल जैसा हम देखते हैं की बच्चों को हर चीज़ अवेलेबल है, टीवी, मोबाइल, लैपटॉप, आई पैड, और बहुत कुछ... इतना एक्सपोज़र है, न जाने कितने और बच्चों की बर्थडे पार्टीज में जाते हैं, बच्चों की एक्टिविटीज के लिए न जाने कितने ही प्ले एरियाज हो गए हैं| इतनी कम उम्र में इतना एक्सपोज़र है, पढाई के साथ साथ और भी बहुत सी चीज़ों में बच्चे अपनी राय देते हैं | उनकी खुद की एक अलग सोच होती है और साथ में न जाने...

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THE MORNING STILLNESS Prayer 5 - A prayer for creativity

​Good morning beautiful and powerful souls. Thank you for being with me here to pray this morning. This is a special prayer for creativity. It is quite often that when we get too busy in arranging and scheduling, preparing and organising, we tend to suffer from creative blocks. These blocks prevent us from creating what we love to. Sometimes our focus also shifts creating out of fear of other's opinions. In these processes, we do nothing but destroy the uniqueness which beautifies all that...

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Kabira Encore

As the wedding season is all round, so was I in the capital for a wedding. Let’s reciprocate the journey. The functions start with haldi, mehendi, sangeet and D-Day. “ Banno re banno meri chali sasuraal ko Ankhiyon mein paani de gayi Duaa mein meethi gud dhaani le gayi (x2) Re Kabira maan jaa Re Faqeera yun na ja Aaja tujhko pukaare teri parchhaaiyan Re Kabira maan ja Re Faqeera yun na ja Kaisa tu hai nirmohi kaisa harjaaiya" The bride is all dressed and sits in...

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BEDTIME PRAYERS Prayer 1 - A prayer for freedom

​Namaste beautiful and powerful souls. Thank you for dedicating these few moments before sleep to a loving and healing prayer. Lets seal this day with a prayer for freedom from those feelings which are filling us with bitterness. Before we go to bed, lets pray to the divine to help us be free of all those nasty recordings which keep on playing in our heads.These nasty feelings may not come up during the day but when our conscious mind sleeps, these feelings of bitterness find their way up...

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THE EVENING SILENCE Prayer 2 - A prayer for expressing anger

​Good evening beautiful and powerful souls. Thank you for being here to pray with me this evening. ANGER is one of the most bothersome emotions after fear. When we get angry we either say something which makes us feel guilty later or we stay shut and our deep rooted anger then turns into resentment. I guess that some of you will suggest that we need to pray for letting go of anger and expressing it is not the right thing to do. Okay, lets take it your way. ​What do you do when you...

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THE EVENING SILENCE Prayer 1 - A prayer for self-compassion

​Good evening beautiful and powerful souls. I am so grateful to you for being here to pray with me. Our daily experiences can be amazing and uplifting or even stressful and disheartening. In today's evening prayer, we will primarily focus on cultivating self compassion and self love. We will stop beating ourselves up and call upon the divine to help us dissolve all guilt, shame, pain and anger. In today's prayer, we will not see ourselves with guilt and regret. Instead, we will...

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From holding stones to holding guns and back to stones

Affection! It is a broad term that's very elastic in nature. It's a direct string attached to the inner cognitive thought and sound that we make to express our over whelming into our surroundings. Affection has the ability to enhance mental stability of other brains in a manner that can be perceived as harmony in environment. But it also has the ability to destruct the current hierarchy in nature. When two different souls are interlinked in such a manner that the overwhelming...

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THE MORNING STILLNESS Prayer 4 - A prayer for wellness

​Good morning beautiful and powerful souls. This morning maybe some of us are suffering from high fever, common cold, headache or any other form of ailment. ​So today we will pray to the divine for a speedy recovery. In today's prayer, we will not focus on how much we are suffering, rather we will make a choice to look beyond this suffering. We will open our hearts to the teachings of the divine. We will pray for a speedy recovery from all fears and to get back to love. ​So lets begin....

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THE MORNING STILLNESS Prayer 3 - A prayer for surrender

​Good morning beautiful and powerful souls. This morning may be a stressful one for some of us. Maybe we have an exam or a job interview or we have decided to resign or file for a divorce. The situation can be anything. In such stressful situations, we need the support of the divine the most. ​In this prayer, we will not ask the divine to make us win or help us get what we want. In today's prayer, we will surrender the situation to the divine. We will not try to control everything or...

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THE MORNING STILLNESS Prayer 2 - A prayer for shining light on all darkness

​Sometimes we wake up in the morning feeling annoyed and irritable. Maybe it was that we did not sleep well or it could be the fear from the previous day sneaking up on us, we feel horrible and frustrated. A morning like that paves the way for a bad day ahead. ​This morning we will pray to the divine to help us shine light on all darkness. We do not realise how often we bury so much within our hearts. In an attempt to push away all our uncomfortable feelings, we push them deeper...

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THE MORNING STILLNESS Prayer 1 - A prayer for severing connection

​Good morning beautiful and powerful souls. I am so happy that you all are here to pray today. This morning we will pray to the divine for deleting old stuff. We often don't realise how much shitty stuff we carry within. Just as constipation makes us loose our appetite for food, in the same way when our heart is full of shit we loose our appetite for love. The pain of betrayal, the anger of humiliation and the fear of failure, all of this lies within us. This morning we will say our...

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How to get an International Award by Stealing Public Wealth?

Once upon a time there was an empire named Dia-in. In the east of Dia-In, the province of Gal-Ben was under a cruel ruler named Tatama. Tatama was very cunning, and he had a talent of manipulating the mob to continue his evil reign. He knew how to divert the population’s attention from the more important to the less important social matters. The majority of the population was illiterate and the rest was too ignorant to see the truth. Tatama had a great influence over the royal officials...

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Yes! We met on February 14

Arranged Marriage! Finally that day came when after all yes's and no’s I am going to meet her. It’s proper Indian style, where prospect groom and bride meet each other along with their parents or alone and this entire process is termed as arranged marriage in our society. Although, its 21 st century and we all are independent and capable, but this is something where I wanted my family, especially my mother to take a call. We reached the venue; it’s a PARK , hell lot of thoughts in...

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Caring Sobriety

Is it necessary to be sober in caring. Everything in this world bothers me. I still have the cheeks to say, "I don't care", not whole heartedly though, yet, the thoughts surround me. The big things bother off course, even a subtle thing lets me down. I am moving on without caring but I am still thinking about it. Does this define caring? Do we care even if we are not allowed to? And then, does allowing to care mean you are really caring? Is caring a fact during allowance or a...

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LIFE...

Hello Dear Readers, Just a small article! Got a minute? I'm just a student who thinks a lot, who would like to keep his thoughts upfront. Life What comes to your mind when I say this word? Birth -> Childhood -> Teenage -> Adulthood -> Old age -> Death ​ If you get these thoughts then you are right. Usually what happens is people don't give importance to the steps of life. It is the most crucial thing in taking your life decisions. Every range of these...

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BLISSFUL AWAKENING Chap 5 - The Goddess descends

​Please note that this article is only meant for inspirational purposes and does not serve as a substitute for any medical or professional help. This article does not aim to offend any race, religion or community. ​What is given to us is given forever and what is given to us is love and divinity. But when the sufferings of the world begin to threaten us, we begin to doubt love and question faith. It is in these moments of awakening that the Goddess descends to reveal the truth to us....

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Poetry: The Dialect Of Human Beings

Every human being faces a stage in his or her life when he or she fails to express his or her sentiments to the other person. Most of the times a person remains speechless to forbid giving irrelevant expressions. It is at that moment when a verse is used as a major tool to communicate with people. A poem is not only a collection of rhythmic words but it is also the dialect of a living soul. Where creatures fail to express themselves, a poem reflects the depth of the authentic sentiments of...

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FILLING IN LOVE Mahashivratri Special Last Chapter - Surrender

​Sunsets remain the same, beautiful and blissful. The sunshine always lights up the world, no matter how dark the night was. The moonlight beautifies the night while the stars decorate the sky. Nothing changes, the universe is eternal. ​Lord Shiva resides in Kailash which is covered in beautiful snow. The snow symbolises kindness which beautifies our hearts just as the snow beautifies everything on which it falls.  ​Lord Shiva even expresses his anger with love. The destroyer destroys...

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Board Exams: Anxiety or Fervor?

Steve Jobs once endorsed: The ones who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do! BOARDS: CONSTERNATION OR ELATION? It is a legitimate fact that board exams have propelled the students of class X into ambiguity. Yet this must be sustained in the reminiscence that the rein station of board exam has proved to be an incredible decision to perish the intensifying lackadaisical attribute towards studies that had crept into the cerebrum of students,...

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Mobile Phones – Boon or Bane?

Mobile phones that are stressing and distracting have become an ever-increasing problem at work meetings in offices. A big company believes that mobile-free zones at work can reduce stress. In a survey of more than one thousand people carried out by an agency on behalf of another company, one third said that mobile-free meetings should be introduced. Around sixty-five percent found that job meetings are getting worse because participants use their mobile phones.  I think it is...

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FILLING IN LOVE Mahashivratri Special Chap 4 - The divine beauty

​The goddess speaks from within and heals from within. Its her voice which says that only the divine shall survive. Anything within us which is divine is immortal and that which is based on fear and is a part of this mortal world shall be destroyed. ​As we worship her and salute her divinity, we connect the divinity within us. We are divine and we possess eternal beauty. But only when we look through the veil of illusion of this mortal world, we can see the divine beauty. This divine...

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4 Tips to Get Respect for Work

To be intelligent in a society is a positive feature. It is one thing which the employers always like much. This is always good since it bestows the ability to become accustomed with other people. The habit of listening to others’ and knowing their intentions and situations can lead to interact with them and communicate well with them. If you want to be listened to, then respecting others is a very good starting point.  ​ Here are four tips: 1. Listen: Although we have...

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A Quick Important Read

​Okay, so this article is for all those who have been reading my previous articles. First of all, thank you so much for all the love and support. ​In this article, I will tell you in brief what healing is and why is it so important. But first, I have some very important things to clarify. Kindly read them. ​FIRST:  ANY ADVICE OR GUIDANCE WHICH I OFFER IS NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR ANY TYPE OF MEDICAL OR PROFESSIONAL HELP. ​SECOND: I AM NOT TRYING TO CONVERT YOU OR MAKE YOU BELIEVE IN...

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FILLING IN LOVE Mahashivratri Special Chap 3 - Fear is bound to be destroyed

​As I sat alone in stillness, with my fear rushing back and the love within me refusing to show up, I heard Mahakali's words through the voice within me. ​"I did not create fear, you choose it. I did not create pain, you choose it. I created nature, I created love and I created power. But you choose to ignore them and I respected your choice. ​Today, you called upon me with all your heart. I know that you are sick of being whom you are not. I know that you are tired of serving...

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FILLING IN LOVE Mahashivratri Special Chap 2 - A prayer for destruction

​This article is more of a prayer to the two ultimate forces of destruction, that is, Mahadev and Mahakali. We unknowingly carry so much fear, pain and darkness within us which does nothing but disconnect us from love which is our true state. We either serve love or we serve fear, we either serve light or we serve darkness, we either serve God or we serve the ego, there is no third option. Today we will pray that all fear within us be destroyed or rather be dissolved with love. ​I bow...

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FILLING IN LOVE Mahashivratri Special Chap 1 - Beautiful Destruction

​As we again get together to celebrate this beautiful festival, let us embrace the divine and the royalty we have been blessed with. ​So often, in our darkest times, in the stillness of painful moments, we have asked ourselves questions like- Who am I? Why am I here? Why am I going through all this? These questions keep following us and every time we are unable to find any answer. In the midst of the storm, we feel powerless and defeated. We feel that the forces of the mortal world keep...

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Makeover for Valentine Day

What is, on this day, in stake for a single man at 40 who is all alone without a partner for a valentine's day. A moment to applaud, a moment to cherish, a reason to feel and be happy. Umpteen more and still counting just for a reason to feel happy. With just a few friends, most of them away, busy with their own woes and wows, foes and friend in life. A simple definition for them is to hang out with their someone special. So what has this got to do with me. And, what about getting my...

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FILLING IN LOVE - Valentine Day Special

​So we are now finally ready to give in to self love. We have expressed our willingness to see things differently and create a life, we love. Its simple: If you are unable to love the life you live, then just live the life you love. ​But when we decide to see things differently and choose to look beyond our fears, we feel a sudden rush of fright. This usually stems from the deep rooted fear of facing the world. When we choose to surrender to the supreme power, our deep rooted fear...

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FILLING IN LOVE Valentine Week Special Day 6 - Hug Day

​I welcome you all again to this beautiful and blissful journey of self love and healing. The credit of this article goes to Ms. Marie Forleo, the founder of B-school and MarieTV. ​I was really amazed when I heard her talking about the importance of the present moment. She says "HUG THE MOMENT" and this has become my mantra for life. ​As we focus on our willingness to change and stick to the promises we have made to ourselves, we need to understand that love can enter and heal...

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My Pregnancy

Its April 15th. I woke up in the morning at around 8 AM and I was heavily bleeding. Blood was on the bed and on the floor. I was totally shocked. All my dreams wiped out, tears rolled my eyes. Oh God! Why again? My heart cried.  My heartbeat was loud enough that I can hear it. Shivam was still sleeping. I rushed to the balcony to pick the mop and cleaned all the blood on the floor. I didn't know how to say this to Shivam that again we lost our baby. Phone rang. It was my dad's call, its...

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FILLING IN SOME MORE LOVE Valentine Week Special Day 5 - Promise Day

​I am so glad and proud of you all for taking such a brave step and expressing your willingness to see things differently. This promise day, get ready to make some promises to yourself which will serve as an anchor for you on this journey. We are also going to say a prayer to the divine and ask for help and guidance. So lets begin. ​1. I promise myself that I will put in all my efforts in learning some new and interesting things which are going to lead me towards my dream life. ​2....

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FILLING IN LOVE Valentine Week Special Day 4 - Teddy Day

​I am so proud of all of you that on chocolate day, you all have expressed your willingness to surrender and see things differently. Your willingness is the key to your happiness. If you are willing to be broken open, light will enter through all your wounded places and dissolve all darkness. ​So, this teddy day lets strengthen our willingness to surrender and let go of all control. ​Quickly get yourself a blue teddy as a symbol of loyalty and trust in the supreme power. Even...

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FILLING IN LOVE Valentine Week Special Day 3 - Chocolate day

So, this chocolate day we are going to focus on self love and healing. Although on chocolate day we do gift chocolates to others but this chocolate day we will get together to discover our own hidden gifts. If you are still confused as to what is going on, you can read my first two articles in this series. So, lets begin this new and blissful journey of healing. Firstly, I would like to introduce you to the concept of " leaning on". When we are going through a crisis whether...

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Gender Inequality - What is that?

Gender inequality is like hating a sunflower for being a sunflower and praising a lily for being a lily. It's not worth it. It can't be that a person deserves malpractices and maltreatment because they are born with different body parts. It only points to an ignorant society and an ignorant mindset.  Only because there is an existence of different species on the planet who resemble women, should not decrease love and respect for women. In the same way as if there is an existence of...

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The Fear of Loss of Time

If we are asked to make a quick list of the things that we are afraid about in our life, all of us would write different things as we see the same. But if there is something that surely would not be missing in a person's list, it would be the fear of the passage or loss of time. It shows that time is the greatest fear in our life.  It is because of the fact that all of us very well know that it can never be changed and that what has already happened can never be recovered. The time...

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For what hides behind the mirror...

Opinions, unsolicited advices and judgmental  attitude marks our society in which we barely manage to survive! All these deadly weapons are readily aimed at our already vulnerable self-confidence, forcing us to question our credibility as a potential competitor, destroying our vigour and tenacity to succeed. But, what hurts our chances even more is the inability to recognise our immense inner-potential. Underachievement is the obvious result of underrating oneself. More than...

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All the time, it feels like I created this eternal wall of silence between us...

“Is it still nothing from your side?”, he sent her a text nearly after eight months. Eight months of complete stillness. Let alone a conversation, they didn’t even exchange a single glance over that period. The reply was very much obvious. She denied wholeheartedly! His heart yet again sunk like a wrecked ship struck with a shell. After facing rejection on three consecutive occasions at the end of each semester, this guy at his optimistic best fired yet another proposal at the end of...

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SORRY but we don't need you anymore!!

I checked my watch; it was 11:15 PM on that January night, late enough to get a call from my friend (needless to say that for someone who doesn’t call me at that hour). I did anticipate that very moment something was wrong, like terribly wrong. The moment I picked up the phone, he sounded panicked and in distress. Trying to gather his breath, he spoke fast and that too at times skipping a word or two. All I could quickly gather was that he had lost his job. I was like oh thankfully...

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Ignorant

How many of us had faced the pressure to perform? Let us understand with a case study. In cricket, if Dhoni misses century or performs underrated the whole media opens mouth to criticise. Now think, hearing critics, his moral will go down but he adapts one formula which is “To ignore”. There are always critics but if we take them seriously, we won’t be able to perform. ​ Kudos to their confidence when they again face the ball with same enthusiasm and overcome their fear....

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Why God has given us life?

It's true that life is beautiful. But it depends on us how we see it. Everything in this nature has its own beauty. Seeing the early morning sunrise and late sunset has its own eternal beauty. Listening to the chirping of birds gives us extreme pleasure of life. When we look outside and see the small kids playing, we are able to forget all our sorrows. We just want to enjoy ourselves forgetting all problems of life. We all try to search for the beauty and happiness in the materialistic...

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Positive thinking : The key to success, health and happiness

It's true that a person's thinking plays an important role in bringing happiness to his life. If a person starts crying and losing hope in every bad situation, his life will never give him a second chance to open a new door of success, happiness and hope. Don't loose hope in any situation of life. You never know what tomorrow will bring. Everything happens for a reason. Life has a way of pushing our dreams down. They can become buried under discouragement and past mistakes. There are...

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GARBAGE: A Reversed Catastrophe

Mahatma Gandhi once advocated: "Cleanliness is next to Godliness." Humans are fanatically scrupulous when it comes to lifestyle and arrogance, bragging and showing off their caliber relentlessly, but an inadvertent but legitimate fact is that when it comes to cleaning the vicinity and striving to enhance the community as a whole, a lackadaisical attitude is indispensable for them. Sanitation is something which everybody can debate on, with a plethora of positive convictions,...

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FILLING IN SOME MORE LOVE - Valentine Week Special Day 2- Propose Day

As all my beautiful readers already know that in my article series "Filling in love", I am dedicating this valentine week to self love and happiness. Lets continue this beautiful journey ahead with day 2 of the valentine week and that is Propose day. A day when you declare your love to your beloved or rather you accept your feelings, propose day is one of the most important days when it comes to celebrating love. This Propose day too we are going to celebrate love, but before we...

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Eyes: Mirror Of The Soul

It's true that beauty lies in the eyes of beholder. We live in a wonderful world that is full of beauty, joy, charm and adventure. There is no end of the adventures that we can have if only we experience them with our eyes. True beauty can't be seen from the outer appearance of a person. It resides in the heart and soul and reflected in one's pure eyes. These beautiful eyes are breathtaking, lovely, elegant, adorable and unwavering. They are trying to speak the words which lips can never...

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Relative Nature of Relationships - Easing the Complexity of realationships

Hello, dear reader! Since, you have opened this article to read, it shows that somewhere, you want to enhance your understanding about relationships and your compatibility with people. ​ Many times, it seems to us that we are not having a very good relationship with a particular person. It may be a friend, a relative, a classmate or a peer. We notice that we tend to fight or our talk usually ends with dissatisfaction or ultimately we never agree with each other. This simply does...

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Darwinian Tragedy

No, there is no such term. I am using it because I don’t know what else I should call this article. Charles Darwin is old news. We all know about mutation. We have evolved from ‘Sahelanthropus’ to ‘Homo sapien’. We have evolved from ‘Origin of species’ to ‘X-men evolution’. But as an Indian national whenever I think of the population of this country, I found Darwinian theory is incredibly relevant with the socio-intellectual evolution of any human society. India has a population of...

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How Can People Find your Content?

One of the best use of social media as a marketing channel is that you can reach a large number of people in your target audience at a very low cost. If you are skilled and lucky as well, then your message can go viral and reach thousands of people all for free. The key to achieving this feat is the content you share. Your content must find the audience.  If visitors have to find your content you have been lost. In that case, you are in line with all the others. Then you have to...

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Filling in Love - VALENTINE WEEK SPECIAL Day 1 - Rose Day

So Valentine week arrives again this year. Its actually a great time of the year to focus on love. Well I am not talking about romantic love here. This festival is mostly mistaken for a fact that its only for lovers. Let me inform you that it is a festival of love and you can devote this week to love in any form and relationship. The theme for my article series will be mainly cultivating love in relationships. To begin with, I will be starting with the most important form of love and that...

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YOU and I - The Perfectionist and The Imperfectionist

You are perfect. I am imperfect of this perfect world. I am the only sinner of this sinless world. Perhaps you are not. I am the only born to be blamed. Perhaps you are not. I am the only doomed to be cursed. Perhaps you are not. And, I am also the only one waiting to be blessed too. You have a blessed life. When the chips are down, when destiny gets harder, when the world seems against you, it feels that all the writings, all the philosophies, every opinion and the motivational quotes,...

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Have you ever proposed your love directly looking into his eyes?

Have you ever fallen in love? Have you ever proposed to someone directly while sitting exactly opposite to him? Do you know how it feels when you know that the person opposite to you is also in love with you but you still can't ask your brain to take the brave step to propose him? I have experienced this and I can tell you that it is a very daring job because you feel butterflies flying all inside your stomach and at the same time you become tensed, excited and what not. I still remember...

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Dear Ex-Girlfriend

Dear Ex-Girlfriend, You pinged me, I replied. You flirted with me, I let you. We became best friends. And we turned our friendship into relationship! But, "It was a mistake" we both realised in the end.  Now, I always think, "Do I still love you?", "Do I still miss you?", "Do I still miss your lips on mine?", "Do I still?", How does that matter?  Fantasy is different from reality! Reality is we are not together. Our FOREVER came to an end!...

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Our India

​ The way of life in India is everything, for example, acquired thoughts, method for individuals' living, convictions, customs, values, propensities, mind, tenderness, information, and so forth. India is a most established development of the world where individuals still take after their old culture of humankind and care. Culture is the way we act to others, how delicately we respond to things, our comprehension towards values, morals, standards, and convictions. Individuals of old...

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You love yourself, and that's enough

We all sometimes go through a heartbreak. Everyone takes it differently. Some cry over it, some pretend to cry over it, some get into alcohol and stuff to get rid of the stress.  When you go through it, you don't know how to go ahead in life now. You act your natural way, you stay sad, you feel​ alone, you remember everything. I couldn't sleep for nights and nights. But that's okay right? I'm a human and it's okay to be sad on someone who left. But for how much time? What to do ahead? What...

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Valentine Week is Approaching

The month of love is already here and is waiting for you to make the most of it. This is the month to love yourself and let your loved ones know about it. The valentine week is most common for youth but nowadays everyone celebrate it to make your days more lovable. 7th Feb (Rose day): Who does not adore rose? Everyone feel special when some one showers you with roses. There are category of roses what we have learnt in our college life 😝. But at the end feelings matter. Shower...

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Growth Mindset Vs Fixed Mindset

Every time we are given a choice we prefer the one which seems to be easy with less headache. This decision is generally taken by our subconscious mind. In fact, 95% of our subconscious mind works in our decision making process. In this article, I am going to discuss two types of mindset i.e. growth and fixed mindset. ​ Fixed mindset makes people believe that easier things are better to do and people putting effort in any work will not get the benefit of their effort. They fear from...

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BLISSFUL AWAKENING Chapter 4 - Fright and Flight

Our body has a fright and flight response to save us from deadly situations, as in if we see an attacker coming towards us, we are bound to run at our full speed no matter how tired we are. But do you know that our soul too has such a mechanism? For instance, if you feel that your marriage is not working for you and you need a divorce, the fright and flight mechanism sets in. You begin to feel afraid of facing the society, being all alone, maybe lacking financial security. And many a...

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New Girl In The City

Living in Mumbai for 21 years, I know almost every place in Mumbai… But still something was Missing. “Dreams”, yes “Sapne“ Mumbai ki baat Ho Aur Sapne naa aye aisa toh ho hi nahi sakta...  I am a ambitious person though I didn’t knew my ambition. I called myself as Ambitious. I was unaware about my biggest strength and someone makes you aware of it. Though I used to write, but there was someone behind it… I had a reason to write - I wanted to express my thoughts to someone.  I started...

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BLISSFUL AWAKENING Chapter 3- Bliss begins with mess

All of us have developed this belief system that bliss is all about perfection. Having the perfect job, the perfect relationships, the perfect family etc. This belief system makes us believe that life is all about doing things the right away. We remain extra careful in whatever we do, be it choosing a career or a life partner. When we look for a job, we look for security and when we look for a partner, we look for perfection. The basic thing is that we want things to go smoothly. We are...

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BLISSFUL AWAKENING Chapter 2- Thunderstorm

How does it feel when you are caught in the midst of a thunderstorm? The roaring clouds scare you, the lightening streaks frighten you, the weather makes you worried and uncomfortable. So you decide to wait for the storm to pass before you begin your journey. You stare out of your window everyday in a hope that the storm shall pass. You wait and wait and wait... The storm continues to roar but the light within you refuses to glow. The thunderstorm here is a metaphor for the chaos and...

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How To Be Happy?

Everyone wants to be happy, so why is it so hard to achieve? They say if you want something in life, you get it, only if you want it bad enough. By now, we know what life is about. So what is stopping that happiness. Our mental state should always be in our own control, not others. It is us who is stopping ourselves from leading a happy life. Sure, there are things that are not helping you live the life you desire but there's always something to learn in everything, doesn't that makes...

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BLISSFUL AWAKENING Chapter 1 - Lost and Lonely

How often do we feel totally helpless and defeated by the forces which we believe are stronger than us? How often do we feel that nothing is in our control and that nothing will ever go back to normal? Yes thats true. Nothing is going to go back to the way it was. You will never be the same person you were before the calamity struck you. The adversity is not just a blow of wind which will go away. It is a huge storm or rather that uncontrolled wave of ocean which will strike you. But here...

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Self Discovery

Our ambitions and goals are influenced based on our needs, surroundings and people. Its very important that we understand ourselves and act accordingly. Everyone has got some kind of uniqueness within themselves but very few are able to recognize and nurture it. The uniqueness in us is the gift in a decorative wrap given by God. It is not possible to acknowledge the gift until and unless we unwrap it. ​Life is full of challenges and suspense. It should not be lived with regrets. Often,...

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A re-colonialising developed India

'I have a new watch imported from america !' . . . Doesn't this boasting give to you a clear picture of the watch? Full of technology and advanced design. Indeed the very idea of development and progress has become synonymous with westernization. English language in itself has become a symbol of literacy and proficiency. Unfortunately, India has fallen as a prey to this ideology and losing its own identity. The internet, and all aviation technology from our electrical goods to major...

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Life is beautiful, if you know where to look at

The more you celebrate and praise your life, the more is there in your life to celebrate. - Oprah Winfrey In 1993, when her marriage ended she began writing feverishly. The seven year period she saw her mother’s death, her first child's birth and the divorce all took place at the time when she finished her first novel. “I just thought I want to write a book but what was the worst thing that could happen, may be getting it turned down!  Big deal, I have gone through that...

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Gifts - an unexpected surprise

Gifts are always an unexpected surprise. A present or a gift is a thing which is given to someone without expecting a payment or a return. If someone gifts an item which is already owned by that person, it is not regarded as a gift. Many people regard gifts as a return of the kindness or helpfulness of a person. Therefore, it is seen that people love to give a present to show their gratitude to another person. People also gift occasionally like as in birthdays, Christmas, marriages...

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Meri Pehli Mulaqat (Chapter 3)

कहते है की प्यार तो पहली नज़र मे होता है, बातो से तो बस हम उसे समझते है । ​प्यार का तो उस दिन नही चला जिस दिन उसे मिला, पर महसूस अगले दिन से होने लग गया था। ​ अब तक जितनी लड़कियो से मिला था उनसे तमीज़ से बात करना मुझे पसंद नही था, पर तनीशा को आप कहने लगा। ​मेरे और उसके बीच 700 किमी का फासला था, और उस से पहली बार मिलने के लिए मैने 700 किमी का फासला तय कर लिया था | धीरे-धीरे टाइम निकलता गया और हम नज़दीक आने लगे। ​बातो ही बातो मे उसने मुझे नया नाम दे दिया था। उसके इस नाम मे मुझे समझ नही...

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Stress Releasing Guidance

Going on in life towards something, does not guarantee you happiness. You are going to remain the same person you were, sure you may feel good, get some change, but person? You will be the same person. What we need to eliminate is our dependence on people and situations to make us happy. Stress can be related to various everyday mental worries like where are you going in your life, why did some people disappoint you, what's going to happen in the next moment? How to gain freedom it feels...

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Changes

Changes…this small word carry a lot of significance in itself. Before opening this blog you must be thinking that this is all about political, social, financial or environmental changes. No, this is not my type. Today we will talk or I will tell you about mental changes.​ We all grow physically, mentally, emotionally or simply we gain maturity. This growing age makes us see the world in varying forms. We experience everything around us. Every movement, every emotion happening around us has...

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Metro Matters: 5 years after December 16 gang rape, safety still a privilege in Delhi

Has Delhi turned into any more secure for ladies since December 16, 2012, is an inquiry frequently solicited, particularly around the commemoration from that portentous day when a youthful paramedic understudy was gangraped with incredible ruthlessness. While the jury is still out on the well being impression of Delhi, which is frequently labelled as the 'assault capital' of India, a couple of things have for sure changed here over the most recent five years. For one, sufferers and...

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Wait, What ? I am 17!

While pushing the ground swiftly with my feet to set the swing into motion I was entertaining myself by looking at the pretty little kids playing. The milk-teeth smile on their faces, cherishness in their eyes, sound of the giggles made me smile. But the smile faded away as soon as I realized that I am not a kid anymore. I am not too older to be called an adult and also I am not too young to be referred as a kid; I am the one in between: An Adolescent. I was too busy living the present...

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Friends and Friendships

Friends are the second most lovable creatures (if i may call them that, on a lighter note ), after family. They are everything that you expect them to be, in terms of being our extended family and are really much more than just that. In good times or not so good times, they are always there by our side. Making friends comes from within and is very organic, as we look for people who are a lot similar to us, in many aspects. This idea is now changing of course, as people who are...

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What Is Past Life? Have You Lived Before?

The people that we meet in this life, do you think that there's no way you could have met them in your previous lifetime? It is widely believed that we have a subconscious mind that lives even after our death, and this mind can help you find your previous birth friends and family. We meet people because we know them from our past births. This is why some things that happen, happen out of nowhere.  ​ There have been many incidences of children telling their new family members...

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LOVE फरियाद

अध्याय -1 ​ धर्म का रंग सुन्हेरा समझा, लेकिन बाद में गहरा समझा, के धर्म का रंग था काला रे..... ​ ये जिन महा-पुरुष की तस्वीर आप देख रहे है इनका नाम है शम्भू रैगर। अब इनके पराक्रम के बारे में भी जान लें, लव जिहाद का पर्दा ओढ़ के एक आदमी को मारा और फिर उसको जला दिया, इनकी मस्ती यही ख़त्म नही हुई इन्होंनेे विडियो भी वायरल किया । अब आप लोग सोच रहे होंगे इनको इतनी इज्ज़त देनी की वजह, अब क्या करे हुज़ूर कल को मुझे माननीय गौ माता के सामने खड़ा करके मार दिया जाए...

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The Journey - How often you remember the souvenir

The roads, streets, lanes are the words we are all familiar to. They have different sizes, the ending point and the structure as a pivot. But we are not here to talk about the history of roads. Right? We all have that one or many reminiscences of the beautiful journey of ours but how often have you tried to get much deeper in realizing the essence of the journey ? I was yearning to tell you all about this beautiful souvenir journey of mine for so long. All I was waiting for an ideal...

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Don't believe in miracles? What if I tell you how to create them?

Who doesn't wish for miracles? Who doesn't want a miracle to occur which could heal a broken heart, pay off a debt or get u a million dollars? I know that we all love miracles. So r u ready to create them?  1. What is a miracle? The book "The law of divine compensation" defines miracle as "a shift in perspective from fear to love." How we shift this perspective will unfold in the lines to come. 2. Why is fear the wrong driving force? We work...

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Can India make progress without shedding caste?

In India, a majority of people termed as ‘backward’ are not really backward and can easily avail all the resources, unlike the olden times. On the other hand, there are people who are indeed backward in terms of their economic stature, availability of resources, education, etc. Yet our policies pay no heed to them because they do not classify as ‘Reserved’. The deep-rooted community or caste system that was created in olden India does not hold water anymore. Because today, occupations...

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A letter to a Self-Murderer

The number of suicide cases is insanely increasing. Daily suicide cases shake up my nerve and make me feel numb. Leaving the well-known Blue Whale reason apart, students also end themselves up because they are in midst of stress and worries. Be the reason anything, there must be manifold solutions, suicide is never a 'should-opt'. You are given birth as a human being, very powerful and wise; but you don't consider this  might (power) not enough to smack down your problems. You have a brain...

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Peaceful Thoughtful Life

We are souls swinging in the ocean of space. The star dust falls on us, we are special.  Peace is our nature. We are made for a peaceful environment. When we get agitated, our body starts behaving abnormally (in unnatural situations) which means we dislike stress. God wanted us happy. Turning your back on God is turning your back to the source. God will set us free and that's what we tend to forget.  Anger often binds us in a self destructive rope. Anger has no end. Peace is the way of...

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13 SIGNS YOU ARE STUCK AT THE WRONG JOB

​ Do u feel serious monday blues? Do u wish that it would be wonderful if u could just be at home all day doing nothing? Does ur heart start racing everytime ur phone beeps with a text from office? Do u feel caged and lost?Does every morning feel like a doomsday? If the answer to all the above questions is YES then maybe u r stuck at the wrong job. Here i am going to talk about 13 sure shot signs that prove that u r probably stuck at the wrong job. 1- You secretly wish u had...

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Meri Pehli Mulaqat (Chapter 2)

कोई पल एक जैसा नही होता है, और हर पल हम एक सबक़ दे जाता है | कुछ सबक़ हमारी ज़िंदगी ही बदल देते है | उस से मिले 1 साल बीत चुका था पर उन पलो ने बहुत कुछ बता दिया और मुझे मैरी अहमियत का सबक़ सीखा दिया | शायद खो चुका था अपना वो गुरूर जो मेरी पहचान थी | पर अब तो वक़्त बीत चुका था ओर अब सब से दूर हो चुका था |  मोबाइल का उस पल अनलॉक होना था और शायद ये तो क़िस्मत में लिखा था | बस इंस्टाग्राम टच किया सर्च करने का मन बन गया | अली ने बताया था फ्रेंडशिप करना इंस्टाग्राम पर आसान है | अब तो बस अपने...

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How to Make Friends and Maintain Friendships

Friends are the first ones to come to the rescue, though there aren't as many of them as we would like. So how do you communicate, be more cheerful, sociable and make good friends? If you know what to do and how to behave, you can easily become friends with any person. Basically, people like cheerful, friendly people, so it is important to show these traits in order for them to be noticed by others. Knowing several tricks, you will be making new acquaintances in no time at your own will....

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Meri Pehli Mulaqat (Chapter 1)

Chapter 1 शाम की 5 बाज चुके थे और मै गार्ड्न  के अंदर उसका इंतेज़ार कर रहा था | जैसे जैसे वक़्त गुज़र रहा था, मेरे दिल की धड़कन तेज़ होती जा रही थी कि कही ये झूठ ना हो | इस बात से परेशान हो गया और बाहर आने लगा गेट की तरफ, सोचने लगा उसे दिए हुए अपने वक़्त पर पछतावा ना हो जाए, कही उस उम्मीद को ना खो दू आज मैं | जब दिल पर दिमाग़ हावी होने लगा तब उसकी बातें याद आई जो मुझे उसे मिलाने लाई थी | शायद ये वक़्त की नज़ाक़त थी या उसकी आदत की मुझे संभाल ही लेती थी, क्यूंकी मैने देखा कि वो आ गयी हैं |...

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Your words are not just words...

‘For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.’ Very long ago when this law was stated by Newton, little he might have known that it won't just get confined within few pages of books. But will have a deep effect in life too. This law actually should be ingrained in everyone's life not just to state & prove phenomenons of Physics in answer sheets. But for something more than that. Because none of us can  handle flip & snap reactions of people,...

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Scarcity of Genuine and Honest People

Every now & then, we come across one or the other news pertaining to any Crime or Inhuman Act committed around us which mounts the following questions in front of us. Whether honesty & kindness have become the terms from the past?  Whether there has been a scarcity of genuine & honest people? Whether humanity has lost its relevance or is there still a ray of hope alive? Whether our source of accomplishment justifies our means of achieving it? Well the...

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Borrowing.... A need or a Habit???

"Neither a borrower, nor a lender be." We all might have heard about this saying but for most of us it is quite difficult to abide by it.  The reason is our habit of borrowing money for our personal spendings.   Well we cannot deny the fact that the thumb rule of doing a business is to do it with borrowed money since our money has opportunity cost involved. But in general context, opting for loan to buy luxuries like car, house etc is never worth it. Specially because of...

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Life Lessons from Ramayana - Perfectionist

Lord Rama - The God! Incarnation of Lord Vishnu in Treta Yuga! He was also a King! He ruled his people so nicely that his rule came to be called Rama Rajya, meaning the rule of righteousness. Here he acted as a King. He saved many sages from demons, he was the greatest archer. Here he acted as a God. The troops were very strong and brave. They were fierce like fire. They never retraced their steps in battle. They guarded the ramparts well. Here he was the bravest King....

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Determined He was !

The Mansion was decorated with all sorts of lavish trinkets, lush green garden sparkled with vibrant neon lights, the fountain in the mansion was seeking everybody's attention with its never ending cascade of water embellished with bright red light. Girish married his dream girl Sania and this was the party he threw in his private mansion. He proposed her six months ago since then they were engaged, now after Girish's Promotion as CFO (Chief Financial Officer) in a company which...

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Is Lord Krishna most liked God in Hinduism?

Krishna - Means Dark - As Krishna was dark colored, so he is known by this name. The greatest avatar of Lord Vishnu, prominent among masses, holding profound impact on the Hindu race affecting its psyche and ethos and all aspects of its life for centuries, he is no less than God. Whether one believes Krishna as human being or a God-incarnate, there is no gain in saying the fact that he has been ruling the hearts of millions for over three millennia. His birth itself is a...

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To stay at ... Home or Hostel?

​ After completing 12th, I was given a choice, either to choose home or live in another city in a hostel. Since I did't want to waste money of my parents (weird thought) and after failing in Engineering Entrance exam, I wanted to introspect myself (again weird I still chose Engineering), I finally chose to live at home taking admission in a local Engineering College. I thought several times, why didn't I chose to drop a year after 12th if I wanted to do self-introspection? But, let it...

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We are here for a reason !!

Sometimes I just stand in front of the dressing mirror & try to look over self. The same hair style since a long ago I discovered, the same face where you see the dimples whenever smiles come out on the lips,  that also have smaller beard in the face. Overall, I see the face which always tries to talk to me; but always repeats the same in front of me what I'm saying!! If I give the chance to him & close my mouth then he becomes the silent! By this, I just try to ask myself...

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THE PAST: Right went wrong

Human race developed because of some fears. To deal with some and survive in the world, they invented  new things to counter these fears.  Like the invention of fire saved them  from wild animals and from the fear  of darkness.  These days we have many kind of  fears. But the biggest fear, scariest  of all residing on earth and in everyone's heart and in both conscious and subconscious from centuries is the fear of what people think about me. Forgetting that “The...

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A Soldier's Diary

I never heard anything about Air Force before 2006. Till that time for me, Defence meant Army only. I was in B.Sc. Final year when I applied for Air Force in AIRMEN Category in 2006 and went to Mumbai for selection. It was my luck and the blessings of my parents as I got selected in my first attempt. I got the call letter to join the most adventurous and thrilling job.  It was 28th March 2007 when I along with 30 other candidates reached Belgaum Railway Station in Karnataka at around...

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The key to happiness

​Believe in yourself. You are 'you' and that's your power🌠❤️  There might have been days when you don't feel like living or you want to give up. Everyone goes through that phase. But believe me, no love is greater than self love❤️. You gotta believe in yourself and conquer the world. No matter what people think, if you actually wanna achieve something you always CAN. There are going to be many hurdles but in the end it will be worth it. Worth every sacrifice and pain. Take out time...

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The bitter truth of the world

There is something wrong in this world...  We have achieved success of landing a man on moon, but we cannot achieve success in filling stomach of a hungry in our society. We have made our concrete jungles wider but wooden forests smaller. We have taken a giant leap towards science & technology but we cannot take even a small step towards humanity and mankind. Our thinking capability is wider, but our thoughts are becoming narrower. Why do we need borders to protect our countries? Can't...

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The New Ways of Living

​Generation gap-a difference in tastes, beliefs and values. Many a times there are conflicting beliefs between the young and the aged. This is nothing but a generation gap which have developed due to certain different factors. Although generation gaps have been prevalent across many centuries, the gap have been wider in the 20th and 21st century. Advances in different fields have made youngsters go through a different path than what their elders used...

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Kuch baaten Dil Me Hi Chhup Kar Reh Jati Hai

Kuch yaaden na rulati hai na sulati hai bas thora vastavikta ka gamm aur thori sapno ki aas de jati hai. Kuch baaten dil me hi chhup kr reh jati hai. Jo bol gye wo vapis na ho, jo soch gye vo hasil na ho... Aisi bhi zindgiyan aakhon me khatakti nazar aati hain. Kuch baaten dil me hi chhup kr reh jati hai. Humne unko haq diya. Na socha kuch na shak kiya. Ffir khud hi de kar unhe daga bewafai ka parcham lehra diya. Aaj bhi vo nazren hmse...KYU ye sawal puch jati hai? Kuch baaten dil me...

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How being tall screwed me up!

They say men ought to be 'Tall, Dark and Handsome'. Being handsome was never my forte, but since I was dark enough, I wanted to grow tall (of course to make up for my shortcoming in the handsome department). Alas! I was just about 5 foot tall when I was celebrating my 16th birthday. However, I was showered by a late bloom and by the time I went to college, I was 6 feet tall. Not tall by the standards of the city I was in, Chandigarh. Still, I wasn't among the ones who were poked fun at...

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Buddhist quotes for a peaceful life

Begin this new year 2018 by following given Buddhist quotes which can help you to lead a very happy and a prosperous life ahead. ​ 1. No matter how hard is the past, you can always begin again. 2. You only loose what you cling to.  3. Pain in inevitable, suffering is optional.  4. Be patient. Everything comes to you in the right moment. 5. Train your mind to see something good in everything. 6. There is no path to happiness. Happiness is the path.  7. The mind is...

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New Year Resolutions for 2018

From the Babylonians to the Romans to the Smartphone century, New Year resolutions mark the beginning of a new version of themselves. Well at least people try to identify their shortcoming and also work to improve them. Some falter on the first day itself (no judgement) and some really go the long way are able to transform themselves. Let’s try again to look into some of the most common resolutions…. And of course debacles. 1.    I will quit smoking. Well this is one of...

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Yes, I slept with my Boss

Shouting out to the world, I would like to say “Yes, I did a personal favor to my Boss and yes that’s the reason I have been promoted”. “Yes, you were all right all along”. What was I even thinking? That people, won’t get to know about the things that I did in hiding? And how many days was I even supposed to live this life with a lie? It’s great, now that the world knows about it, they can finally talk about it, right next to me, rather than gossiping behind my back!! Oh,...

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Jobs

We all remember the time when the employer says “Congratulations you are selected, we welcome you on board.” This sentence how much ever time we listen we are rejoiced. We all always wants that our talent be recognised. Every one wants to be recognised and more over we all love to be associated to an organisation, I guess it gives satisfaction. Before the job selection we all face interview and if you goggle interview questions you will find the list, so let’s discuss questions for marketing....

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Things to do before this year passes away

One more year of our life is about to pass away in few days. Let's look back to the time, when this year, which is about to go was about to come. We were full of excitement not because a new year was about to come but because we were seeing it as a new opportunity. An opportunity to start something new and also there is a hope that something new might happen with our life which might change the things which we don't want in our life. But, this year end has come and yes, our...

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Be your own unique self

Many of us may be afraid of being our-self thinking what the society feels. Many of us pretend to be someone else fearing to be judged by others. There is a lot of difference in being yourself and pretending to be some one else. Impressing everyone is impossible. People will always point out what you are not capable of. When you focus on hiding yourself from others you will only end up getting hurt and disappointed. Wake up tomorrow and for at-least one day try to be yourself. Say what...

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When life gets stuck at 25

Hello everyone. This is my second article regarding a common feeling we all go through when we hit 25. Life seems stuck and we are completely clueless about where to go and what to do. Here are the things you should do when you don't know what is wrong with your life when you are 25. 1.) Calm down:- Do not freak out. Yes, you are 25 years old and you still might not have a job, a car, a bike and that new iPhone. But do not freak out about it. First accept it that you are...

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Don't Give Up Yet

The in  ternet is flooded with motivation and inspiring pictures with very moving thoughts. But in this article, I am all about to discuss the reason why its never ok to quit and how to fight that giving up attitude. ​ 1.) Its not the end:- Yes!!! Its not the end of the world. You might have met a tragedy which you never have thought about and you are about to give up on yourself. May be your loved ones left you. May be you are too tired of trying again and again. May...

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Photo gallery wall

The moments captured Photo gallery is a way to organize different photographs. It can be organised in a wall, in digital devices or anywhere people like. We always stop by to have pictures taken of the beautiful memories we have encountered in our whole lifetime. The pleasure we get when we look at these pictures after is definitely not to be explained. That's one thing about photos. It freezes the time and captures the beautiful moments. What can be more contending than to...

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Love life in today's world. Is it really true love or just??

Due to technology and Mobile phones we are connected to each other and started knowing each other and liking each other. We fall in love, we meet each other. And start dreaming about future. But our dream come to an end when we realise that our loved one is going to marry someone else instead of you. And your partner simply move on by just saying "it's just a time pass". Some times we know from the begin that other person is too serious for the relation and we just start playing...

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Don't loose hope

In your darkest days, you will always find a light that will always shine through you. Just lead that way. It is the time for you to turn on the light that is within you. You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. Such things in life makes you strong. Everyday is a challenge. Whether you are sad or you are happy; whether you are successful or not successful, just don't loose hope. Hope is the rope. Try and try until you...

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Life is valuable

​ Life is precious. Everybody doesn’t get a life that is worth cherishing. Some people don't have enough resources and some don’t have courage to live because of their in-capabilities. Some handicapped persons love their life besides the defect they have in their life. Having opportunities and facilities and still feeling that you have nothing is a total waste of those facilities. Before even thinking about ending your life think about those who are living it besides all the...

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United We Stand, Divided We Fall

United we stand, divided we fall. How difficult it is to understand for us all? A problem we never fail to ignore. A problem we don't bother to think about. A problem that we don't even consider a problem. And a problem that doesn't need to be told about. For every problem, we can find a solution. For every question, we can find an answer. For every step that couldn't be taken till now, will now be taken. For every obstacle that comes our way, we can stand together to solve it instantly....

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Dance is a worship

To worship God, one needs to have love in the heart and love is attained only through sacrifice and selflessness. Once there was a dervish man (muslim religious order)  who dances rigorously in front of each mosque. He was being asked why he worships God through dance? His reply was beyond belief “to worship God one has to kill self, and dancing has the passion as well as life to kill the self, where self dies out, all your problems dies, where the self is not, love and God persists.“...

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THE SIGHTS OF LOVE #PART- 4/7

It was completely shocking that day when he said me all that stuffs and this is not where it all ended. There were a series of screams, swears and much more and that’s why I never regretted my next action after that I took. I don’t ever cared for anyone like I did for you but you were really a big time moron. He’s hospitalized since last two weeks and I really wanna see him but I will be not becoming a fool this time because of my heart. I will be listening to my mind and I wished that if...

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The Four Noble Truths and Eight fold Path in Buddhism

"I teach  suffering, its suffering, its origin, cessation and path. That's all I teach." This was a quote said by Buddha 2500 years ago. The essential teachings of Buddha are present in the Four Noble Truths that were understood by Buddha during his meditation under the bodhi tree. The four noble truths are-  a. The first noble truth [Suffering (Dukkha) ] - Suffering comes in many forms. The three common forms of suffering  observed by Buddha on his first journey outside his...

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Respecting A Choice - Being A Homemaker

    Recently I read in a newspaper about an accident case, wherein a housewife was killed. She was a mother of two kids. The tribunal ordered a compensation of around 32 lac inclusive of interest to the husband and daughter of the housewife who was killed in the accident in year 2010. The deceased woman’s husband was not depending on the wife financially. But the tribunal thought that the woman was rendering services by performing household work and in that sense...

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Last day of my school

Last day of school is the most sad day in one's life. The one who has been in school will always miss the school. The day we leave the school our mind says that you are not coming here again. The tears in our eyes define the reality. We are going for a new start but still we will miss the school. School is the second home in one's life. We should not forget this home because this is the only place where we have learned every thing right from ABC to the complex structure of brain. Here,...

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Bring Humanity Back

" Life is neither bed of roses nor bed of thorns" The above statement holds much importance in the life of a middle class man. As happiness won't lasts longer and so won't the sorrows. It only depends on how a person confronts these phases of life. ​ As in modern world everyone anticipates for his own pleasure without even giving a second thought regarding its unpredictable consequences which induces a same sort of behaviour among his kith and kins. Some of the below...

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Difference in Success & Failure

We are all are surrounded by Success & Failure in every step of our life. In fact life has two sides on each walks of its activities. But have we ever  speculated what  is the difference that creates the paramount difference  in results  There exist a big difference in between success and failure and that is patience & persistence. In order to get attainments we need to work hard. Working hard doesn’t guarantees you to reach moons but it surely guarantees, that...

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How to improve yourself?

We all live in a society where everything is judged with just first sight. Starting from a simple wrapping of packet of biscuit to the look of a car. We just belief in external appearances. We have moved on too fast that judging on first sight has became a habit for all of us. But there's few more places left on earth where we can reach with our well defined personality only, else we'll be thrown out at any point of time. So here I'll share something that should help you to correct...

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Enlightenment quotes

Here are some of my favorite quotes by Carl Jung: These quotes are very enlightening! :) ​ Who looks outside, dreams; who looks inside, awakens. Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. Knowing your own darkness is the best method for dealing with the darknesses of other people. There is no coming to consciousness without pain. The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of...

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The magic of motivation

Ever felt bogged down or demotivated ... I am sure that the answer was or is YES. A tough day in office or things not going to plan can be frustrating. Not feeling appreciated for all the hard work and dedication shown, can be demoralizing and painful at times. None more so that you are worthy of so much more, but nothing happens. Negative influences are many and we go through a lot of adversity which can be very tiresome. The daily stress that we go through everyday is something that we...

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How can I make changes in my life?

This was a question I received from a follower. In answer to the question, I have written this. You can improve your  experience of life  in so many ways :) . If you're wise with yourself, you'll see how much you can prove yourself. Here are few simple ways: Health  is the most important thing. It determines how well you live. ​ Start meditating !  Meditation  has a really lot of benefits. Eat healthy : The food you eat plays a big role in your life. Healthy fresh...

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A Grave Mistake

She woke up that morning feeling the same thing that she'd been feeling since she was twenty-two years old, the same feeling of loneliness. That was what kept her up and would continue to do so for the rest of her life. The feeling of loneliness even when there were people around her. She doesn't blame anyone else but her for what has happened to her. Of course, it was her mistake. That night had been her mistake. She still remembered as if it were yesterday. The pub, the drinks, the gang...

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Work from Home-Part II

This is a story about a girl who had worked in an organization since years and one fine day what happened and how she coped with that is a story. The job was retail marketing, and we are well aware that important are clients, if you sit near clients you know them well rather than sitting in office. Rumours were at spill that  the organization is going through umpteen losses and cannot bear any further expense. So layoff is always the best option. Suddenly the question started to raise what...

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Let it go. Forgive...

As great and famous people say, to live peacefully "forgive others", "give others second chance". No, I don't want to say anything about it. I want to ask, do we forgive ourselves, do we dare to give second chance to ourselves? We all have made some plans for our future in our mind and we just follow every possible path to execute them. Irrespective of whether others agree with your plans or not, we work hard to just live that plan. Whatever that plan maybe,...

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Feminists: Face the reality

​Imagine relaxing on your seat in a deluxe bus listening to your favorite song when you feel a tap on your shoulder. A woman in her mid 20's asking you in fact ordering you to leave your seat to her. Well, were the one who came in first so you refuse straight way, fair enough isn't it? She informs this to bus conductor who straight away tells you to leave the seat. Not only that the rest of the ladies start cursing you for not respecting a lady....

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IF INDIA AND PAKISTAN WERE ONE

What if the two Asian giants were not separated? India & Pakistan image source:Crossed flag pin   Today we are going to discuss about two Asian giants and going to predict how would the nation be, if both the nation were not separated and how it would have affected the world. 1.Bangladesh If Indian and Pakistan were one nation then there would be no nation known as Bangladesh....

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Culture

​ Culture is the gain to the values. Being values in assemblance, rejuvenation. Baby baby morning... Let I see you Evening... Saturday is today... Lets why Sunday be amazing... Being values... Memories memos sweetens... Manly in maidens... Why there is values... Suppress that sacrifice... Being vales... Else finish...  No values...  Still I come with other...  With other... You are...  For me cultural value... That shine shows, shivers off that prestigious autonomy,...

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What happens when you start believing in something strongly?

''Belief'', the word itself is so powerful that once you set that in your mind..miracles start happening. You start working towards your goals.  We have indefinite and unbelievable powers within ourselves. It just takes oneself to discover that potential which lies untouched. We have seen people who have made their dreams come true even after failing a number of times. Belief is not only about making your dreams turn into reality..its possibly for each and every situation in life.  ​...

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School crushes

Those who had love in their school life were the luckiest. The first love of ones life is always the best. No love can replace the first love of our life. First love is which we have in the school. Even after many years we do not forget our first true love. We just realize how true it was. Many lovers even enjoy the heartbreak. If love is there there is heartbreak as well and it will bring pain n suffering but before loving any one do we think about this? Answer would we no. We just get...

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Success

Now a days every person has a common dream that is SUCCESS.  Many people do hard work day and night to be successful...And surely they get the success... But many people always seems feared, confused, and in hurry to get success... Sometimes they also change their line to get success, as a time they like engineering and the other point they like civil... Such people don't get success easily because they are not serious about any particular aim. They don't think for themselves but other....

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Life is a trauma.. It's a roller coaster with sudden twists...

Life's a trauma... A roller coaster, every time a new twist... Every time a new challenge to face... Things we have never known come to us and we find no rescue... Feels helpless and so vague. But the only choice is you need to adjust yourself or you are left far behind in the race. You can't wait around for something to become good, it either is or isn't... Because life doesn't stop... Life is inherently risky. There is only one big risk you should avoid at all costs, and that is the risk...

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ऐसे जीतें आलस्य को।

​ आज से लगभग 90 वर्ष पहले की बात है।  सोवियत संघ की एक मनोवैज्ञानिक थीं - ब्लूमा जिगार्निक।  बर्लिन में पढाई करते समय सन 1927 में उनके गुरु ने एक बार किसी रेस्टोरेंट में अनुभव किया था  कि वेटर्स को वो ऑर्डर्स ज्यादा अच्छे से याद रहते हैं जो अभी अधूरे हों, जिनपर सर्विस चल रही हो। इसके विपरीत जो ऑर्डर्स पूरे हो गए, जिनका  ग्राहक ने भुगतान कर दिया, उन ऑर्डर्स की डिटेल्स वेटर्स तुरंत भूल जाते हैं। इससे ऐसा प्रतीत होता था मानो  'कार्य के अधूरेपन' तथा ' उसे याद रख पाने की क्षमता' में कोई...

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Behind every cloud is a silver lining

EVERY  CLOUD  HAS  A  SILVER  LINING “Do not worry when the clouds overtake the sky, Behind every cloud is a sunbeam on sly.” During  rains, dark clouds shroud the sun and the bright blue sky turns drab grey. Days become dark, dull and dreary. However, when observed carefully one can see streaks of silver sun rays glistening through the clouds. These “silver linings” indicate that the sun is not far away and shall appear very soon. When the rains cease, the sun chases...

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Jesus: The Prince of peace

Who is Jesus? Is he one of the prophets? or He is a good teacher? So lets find out who is Jesus in reality !!! Jesus was born in Jerusalem, the capital of Israel approximately two thousands and twenty years ago.  But is it the ordinary birth of a child? No! His birth was prophesied many times in the history, by many prophets like Moses, Amos, Isaiah and they did it long time ago. Moses lived approximately 1400 BC (BEFORE CHRIST) and told about the Birth of Jesus. So definitely Jesus...

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The Lost Art Of Conversation

“Dudeeee” “Yeah bro?” “How have you been!!?” “Good bro, good! Been chilling in life and stuff!” “We should meet up sometime!” “Totally, we will. Btw did you go for the party yesterday? It was IN - SANE!” “LOL no man, was busy with something else!” “OMG, you need to listen to this song by Jon Bellion- he is too effing good!!” “Jon Bellion! I love that guy man- we should totally catch his concert sometime!!” “Hell Yes!”...

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Will The Circle Be Unbroken

In this era of the socialized world, we the people talk about the equality in all formats. But to be practical, all these equalities thoughts are just thoughts. It still didn't come to practice in our society. We can see a higher caste (I really hate the concept of caste) people demanding for banning the reservation system in all fields. From one point of view it seems correct. But are those people who raise their voices against the reservation system are ready for inter cast e marriages?...

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THE LAST TEXT AT 3 AM

​ This is so frustrating and I am not able to handle it anymore because I am idiot. Yes I am and if you want to know why I am idiot, crazy so let me tell it's because of you. You are the one who just made me like you and then love you. It's not all that I want to say because it was you who made me desperate to talk to you and when I did, you started ignoring me and you didn't even realize how much those things started hurting me. When I was so lonely without any thing important...

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A Letter to My Love (Part 3)

Dear Love………… (I won’t take your name as I promised to you) Once again I’m writing this letter to you; but really don’t know from where I should start?? Still... Let me try!! Last week, I watched a movie, “Secret Superstar” & this is the most anticipated movie by Aamir Khan Productions. The movie is based on empowerment of girls’ child & tries to emphasize on how a mother plays the role of ‘secret superstar’ to encourage her daughter to achieve her dreams...

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How secured are women in this modern world?

It has been identified that women are the victims of most of the criminal/rape cases in this modern world. Women are the most unsecured human beings because of their beauty and their sexiness. Female gender is a generalized thing defined by God but how are males using this opposite gender as a slavery material. Women are not meant to be slaves of their life partner. Women have the equality with men. They have the same amount of freedom to roam, explore, earn in a corporate etc. Women...

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Norse Mythology

Asgard is the name of one of the nine worlds of Norse Mythology but also of the fortress inside it. It is the home of the gods and contain many famous locations including Valhalla (Odin's hall of the slain). ​It is connected to Midgard (world of humans) by a rainbow bridge called Bifrost. Guarding the Bifrost is Heimdall, the whitest of the gods. He requires less sleep than a bird, can see for over a hundred leagues be it night or day and his hearing is so good that he can hear grass...

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SOCIAL MEDIA AND THE PUBLIC DISCOURSE TODAY

Ever heard of the myth of the mammoth Leviathan? Defeated by Lord Hadad, the sea monster came to symbolise the win of the good over the evil. In the times of great intellectual and epistemological break that Europe was undergoing withal Renaissance Reformation and scientific revolution, the myth was reincarnated by the great theorist Hobbes to mean an absolute figure head ruling over the multitudes, in the absence of which latter are anything but civilised and cultured. Social...

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$Who Am I?

$Who am I..?  A terminal or something else The above words or title of topic would certainly puzzle somebody who is not familiar to UNIX, which is an operating system wherein this command is executed to know the names of the terminals that are connected to the server. When we were being taught about this command, a thought quickly passed my mind. This command returns us the name of the terminal. If we ask this same question to ourselves “Who Am I??”  What shall...

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Does God Really Exist??

Is it really that god exist?? Many of the people in the world believe that God do exist and helps us, but if so then why the poorer are getting poor. If God do exist why don't he help the beggars and the needy people who really needs him. There are certainly powers in the universe based on which the universe is working, So its not something that there is a single person who is ruling or operating the world, infact all the things going around are basically working on the emotional...

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Is it advisable to take a year gap before joining college?

Taking a gap year is a crucial decision to make at the end of high school. It depends on a student’s mentality and capability to cop up with its consequences. A gap year has its own pros and cons. But the positive side of taking a gap year seems to be a brighter one in comparison to the other side. A gap year can cater many advantages to students. It will serve as a break from the traditional education. It can give a sense of relief after a lot of hard work in high school under the...

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An Urban Upbringing

I'm a 16 year old Indian girl who was born with a silver spoon in my mouth even before I was born, as my parents could afford all the nutrients necessary for the birth of a healthy baby. I'm a 16 year old Indian girl who was born with a stable roof over my head. I'm a 16 year old Indian girl who was born to parents who can afford to provide electricity, water and all other basic facilities and even some non-basic ones. I'm a 16 year old Indian girl whose little feet was adorned...

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Real Love - Her story

There is lack of nothing in my life. Own home and few assets, a decorated graduation, a 6-digit pay check, a family, a vast group of friends. There is everything with me that a person would desire. Yet, for some reason I found myself in the loop of vicious negativity and self-doubt . I feel I do not have something and I find myself chasing that something, that I am yet not sure of. I felt constantly un-appreciated for the things that I tried to do and I yet have everything, had no one to...

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MANAGING RELATIONSHIPS??. . . . OH, PLEASE!!

We all stumble into relationships – some by birth, others by choice! Some of them thrive with our age while others fade away like sawdust. Some relations roar like they will rule our coming years while some collapse as they never existed. Some relations leave behind blossoming flowers of memories while some give birth to evil thorns that haunt the rest of our lives. Some relations prove to be nectar, emancipating our lives while others prove to be poisonous, eradicating peace out of...

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True Love

“ And, why exactly have you decided to marry him? Is that true love?” my BFF enquired. I did not know what to reply to that question. In my mind, I was mediating on the possible reasons as why I was I marrying him. Every reason was practical. He liked my family, he was supportive towards my career and towards my life choices, he wanted me to be an independent person and own a self-identity. For me, these were one of the few reasons to marry a guy. He and I, both love each other, but...

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Awesome Ads

Balram Garg, Managing Director of  PC Jeweller has launched bollywood couple Akshay Kumar and Twinkle Khanna for the latest TV Commercial. Every time, I watch this ad, I just cannot stop gushing about the beautiful concept of branding their product. They have recreated the magic of love and with the sizzling chemistry of Akshay Kumar and Twinkle Khanna, the ad gained so much popularity. We really need to applaud the marketing team of PCJ who has built their brand with an emotional appeal....

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Never say never

If you say that 5 years is too less to achieve anything substantial*. Here is what Sher Shah Suri achieved in 5 years and 5 days (1540-1545). And he succeeded Mughal King Humayun.  ​ 1.  Started the measurement and survey of all land holdings in the kingdom. Introduced the measure "Gaj" which corresponds to 39 inches. 2 . Started the "Patta" system for sale purchase of land. 3.  Introduced the currency called "Rupya" (Rupee) which was...

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Why it sucks to be a woman?

In many parts of the world, the birth of a boy is celebrated with pomp, whereas a baby girl is welcomed with mourning . A bunch of us privileged women might not have faced this discrimination from our families and society, but we must not be blinded by this as there is a major part of the society where women are mistreated. Here are few things that women feel as 'why it sucks to be a woman?' 1.      We are raised differently from birth That’s the first thing. From the...

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Stepping into the Corporate World

"That is how corporate life differs from your college life", she concluded. Everyone packs their bags and leave without uttering a word. "She's right", I said to myself, "It does differ a lot". But different doesn't always mean bad and I learnt this the day I came back to my empty room and she knocked the door and said, "Let's all go out for dinner today." I still remember the dinner we had that day and the innumerable dinners we had after that....

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Celebrating Children's Day

"Let us sacrifice our today, so that our children can have a better tomorrow." Happy Children's Day! Children's day is a day of exultation, glee, pleasure and jubilation. It is celebrated on 14th of November every year. Children's day is observed throughout India to swell up consciousness of the rights, care and education of the children. It is celebrated on the birth anniversary of the first Prime Minister of India, Pandit Jawahar Lal Nehru famously known as 'Chacha...

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THE SIGHTS OF LOVE # PART-3/7

“The lights of life, I’m learning to survive, Strange! Never felt so good, getting revive. Being with you is making me oblivious, And when not, desperate and curious.” ​ And here we are sitting in front of each other for the first time. I never thought actually that we will be meeting like this sometime ever. Sometime like this away from our groups and friends, but we did! I am getting nervous and looking out in my mind that what should I say? You too are sitting silently with...

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A LETTER TO MY LOVE (Part 2)

Dear Love……….. (I won’t take your name as I promised to you) Do you know, a letter to you sweetheart not only convey my heart's desire, but also the stories which I want to share with the love of my life. Since not everything can be spoken, putting pen to paper helps in emoting more confidently. That’s why I’m writing this letter to you my love! I vividly remember the day when we first met. We talked for hours, about everything; we both have shared everything with each...

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How to make every day of life special?

Nowadays in the busy schedule of life everybody has a question in mind, how to make everyday different with the same schedule or how to make each day special so that life can become beautiful. Most of the people we see around us are actually tired with their daily routine. They find their life to be boring. Even to be very true, I found myself sometimes in the same state. But now I have found a solution of it. Yes, as we can not change our daily routine of going school, college or for job,...

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Ankaha ahsaas

​ 7 arab logon ki ye badi se duniya, globalization ka ye samay, dheron social networking sites, video calling aur bhi na jane kitna kuch. Haan emoticons bhi hamari feelings ko express krne ke liye pr tab bhi ek ajeeb sa suunapan, ek unkaha sa khalipan. Mann ke andar he yun to aaj kal har koi busy hai apne anginat kaamon me, pr tab bhi na jaane kaise jb bhi hum kuch palon ke liye tham jate hai to vo unkaha sa ahsaas hamaare dil ko har taraf se gher leta hai, jiski vajah se hum itni...

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Is It All About Religion?

Religion, the word means differently for different people. For some people, religion is the core of their life while for others, religion is just a column which needs to be filled in any form.  Generally there are four types of people: The first one are complete followers of religion. These people strictly follow what is told in their religion. Such people are sometimes considered orthodox or conservatives. The second one are partial followers of religion. These...

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Real love

"LOVE" is a word which gives us a picture of a relationship between a boy and a girl or I will just say an attraction or need of a body as a result of hormones. However, love is beyond that as well. Love can be between family members and between friends as well. Real love is actually a feeling without any expectations or any selfish need. It is a real bond which help each other understand everything even without saying a word.  Real love is there in a mother-child relation, in...

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An Opportunity or a Curse

Having a young population of more than 65%. Is it an opportunity or a curse? India has an unbeaten demographic. Around 65% of its population is 35 or under, and its more than half the country’s population of 1.25 billion people are under the age of 25. It is expected that, in 2020, the average age of an Indian will be 29 years, compared to 37 for China and 48 for Japan as per Demographics of India-Wikipedia.  If we see their number equates to the population of several...

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Why do we make our prayers as rituals?

“Everything is possible to him who wills only what is true! Rest in Nature, study, know, then dare; dare to will, dare to act and be silent!”  ―  Éliphas Lévi ,  Transcendental Magic: Its Doctrine and Ritual Some worship casually whereas some like it to be more formal. I heard saying many a times “aisa nahe kiya toh paap lagta hai”.  I am forced to think kaisa paap? I also used to get bit terrified with all the orthodox type views in the past. But one day, I saw a video...

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THE SIGHTS OF LOVE # PART-2/7

''THE FIRST EXPERIENCE OF LOVE'' “Splendid memories of bonding, we are experiencing inside, is astounding as if this is what we were looking for since a very long and now suddenly somehow from somewhere the searching ends. “ ​ And at this point experiencing and enjoying the various new emotions commences… In morning, when I get up from my bed, with having a huge smile and eyes filled with dreams, still for meeting that alluring person once again. I got out of my quilt and went outside...

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A SILENT REVOLUTION NEEDED

We are living in an era, where vote bank politics is more important than national integration. Every time politicians make us fool & wins the election. They talk more on countries development program but the reality is lacking far away from their dialogues.   It is so easier to get votes in the elections by making fake promises. Now, what we really want? We want better lives, better hospitality, safety & security of lives, country’s better economy, peace &...

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Dark Side of love

Everything has two face, one is bright and other is dark. Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies. Aristotle said that, and it was meant to be more philosophical than romantic. You can take it any way you like -- even if you don't believe in the concept of the soul, you understand the meaning. When we are in love, we always see our relationship as a bright future and after the breakup that angel girl, seems like a witch to you. You start cursing each other...

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THE SIGHTS OF LOVE # PART-1/7

The journey with no destination to reach, in-cognizant of day and night. This is the way you move on like, on an unsung path of life. And yes, this is what life is. With all the happiness and sorrows we keeps on moving, breathing and hoping for a better tomorrow. Always!  Life actually don't have just one definition, its not the same for everyone that's why everyone explain it in there own ways. A fantasy, a hell, the most beautiful thing they are experiencing and a lot. The ocean...

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How to Effectively Spend Weekend?

Weekends are something that brings a spark in the eyes of corporate laborers, like me. This is something that is looked forward to starting from the beginning of the week. 2 days, that is, 48 hours, a lot of time to relax the body and mind from the stressful 5-day work routine. Not always are these 2 days a blissful break. Partying hard, Friday night and spending Saturday wasted, there is just one day left to finish items from the ‘To-Do List’. Yet again this one day is spent being...

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The Grand Middle Class Struggle

Life being born in a middle class in  INDIA  is always in a Dilemma. Neither we can claim the below poverty line (BPL) to have the free facilities from government of INDIA, nor we can enjoy the prestige and facilities of so called high class standards in INDIA. So where do we stand ...?? Honestly life starts with a grand struggle for a middle class, from taking birth in a hospital to first admission in a nursery school and till you complete your engineering or BA degree from a college. You...

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Don’t Be A ‘YES’ Donkey. Set Boundaries At Work!

Maya joined a new office as an Engineer with a dream and ambition to climb up corporate ladder and to be a manager soon. Since the organization was new and there was not much project work, to utilize her billing time Maya agreed to help her Boss with preparing presentations and keeping track of project requirements. Despite these activities, Maya had enough time to volunteer in corporate events and activities. Over a period of 2 months doing the same ‘ Cut-Copy-Paste’ work,...

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Invincible Summer - Part 1

I would really wish that winter never comes. There goes a statement that I never imagined I would say! Succeeding it was a summer I was not prepared for . Invincible Summer . It happened in mid January, I was sitting in my class peppy that this was the last semester of college and I would be post graduating! What lies ahead is office time which I was most thrilled for. At around 10.15 a.m., I received a call from my brother, probably he was sleepy, I thought. But probably I...

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Parents please give your kids some playtime

It really aches to see empty gardens and empty playgrounds near our houses. Kids these days are so busy with their studies and other competitive exams that they hardly find time to recreate themselves. I am myself a private coach for small kids with their studies. I had actually started my coaching centre for kids from 1st to 8th with a view of imparting knowledge. Main aim of the institute is that a child needs to do their studies for max 2 hours after school. After that the child should...

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THOUGHT-LESS-NESS

What is that feeling beyond love and happiness? What is that feeling beyond pleasure and peace? What is that feeling to feel everything beyond its existence, yet feel nothing? What is that feeling which is transcendental yet experienced by the mortal body? For a mother, it’s a feeling when her new born baby cries for the first time. For a father, it’s a feeling when his baby grabs his finger for the first time. For a true devotee, it’s a feeling when...

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WHAT'S SPECIAL IN ME?

Even a newborn wants special treatment from his mother, he   cries if denied so. Heroism always attract us because a hero is very special. We all want to be a hero, want to do something different. Isn't it so? If you are praised for something then you can feel an increase in energy level. This means a feeling of being special adds to confidence and sharpens the skill. But gradually with time, we do realize that our actions are very common. We do what every other common man on this planet...

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Online Marketing

Digital Marketing is one of the most important facet and is growing manifold. People are launching new business everyday. Each one of us are looking for an opportunity to start a business online. Have you ever thought why every one wants to go Digital? The answer is cost saving and this cost saving is due to outsourcing. Outsourcing is nothing but to contract out. Its a practice in which you get your work done by any other individual or organization. Several Business Process...

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Every ending has a new beginning

Our life begins with a new fresh morning which comes after the end of dark night. Like sun rays, we start our work with positive energy to fulfill our objective through day and we should implement on our objective by considering our past experiences & mistakes for better result. Our life starts from the sweet phase of our childhood. Childhood is the most entertaining, sweet and important phase of our life. In childhood we learn so many things like speaking, learning, respecting...

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How to find a reputed business consultant for the business formation?

Consultants are important for any organization. Whether it is finance, human resource or a clerical task, these agencies can help any organization in the day to day task. However, while hiring a consultant agency for your organization, you may face problem to start the search. Here are some ways to find an authorized consultant agency. Before going through the selection process of the consultant, it is significant to know roles and responsibilities of the consultant for...

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Changing the Taboo of Adoption

“ That’s it! I have decided to adopt a child and not to have of my own” . I announced to everyone at home. There was silence and my parents looked at each other with a confirmation that I have completely lost my mind to say that. This statement coming out from a 25-year-old woman, unmarried one and an Indian had put both my parents into trouble as ‘Adoption’ is a big No-No in Indian society. My parents were afraid now that I will not find (rather they will not find) any guy to marry and...

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The Value of Laughter in the Workplace

The human has only one effective property that is laughter. Laughter can be the key to the success. People usually take work seriously and likes to act appropriately. Being an employee in the organization, they feel they have responsibilities to complete and cannot focus on the personal happiness. They feel if they have fun at the workplace, it can consider as the inappropriate behavior.   ​ As per the survey, 91% of the people feel that happiness can develop...

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What pain do we really sustain?

Today all of us wants to live a comfortable life. Everyone wants to live an easy life, to be popular and to earn money easily. If we ask someone “what do you want from your life?” We’ll get answer like “I want a safe & happy life & a job that I like”. But if we think deeply about it we’ll find that it doesn’t make any sense at all. Because we’ve never considered about “what are we willing to struggle for”. Everybody wants a sound financial position but not everyone of us wants...

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Rape! The worst crime that can be committed

Today, if you open any NEWS site, you'll able to see at least one notification regarding a rape case in INDIA. Rape cases are exponentially increasing in our society, and this is when there are cases which don't come in light, are kept hidden from public and justice. My question is simple, who to blame for this increase in rape cases in our country? Let's start with government: Punishment for Rape in India : Life imprisonment to death sentence After the Anti Rape...

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Memories

"Do memories ever fade?" They do fade when your conscience finds solace in those thoughts between the sea of knowledge and the sky of unknowns. Memories are the thin line between happiness and repentance where oblivion seeks identification. It has a vendetta with the relativity of your thoughts and the inertia of your life. Your life seems detached and your actions are disoriented in the flashback of uncertainty. Memories enslave our emotions and in this inherent servitude, we...

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Pain

Thats the thing about pain, it demands to be felt. It is a feeling where you succumb to feelings that is not going to reciprocate. Yet you cling to it, giving hope, filling you with emotions that cannot be expressed. People who have experienced pain are the people who tend to trust less, over think more and shut people out. It modifies your mental predisposition and makes it more adaptable to further pain. Your thoughts become more insecure and emotionally you become unstable to ignorance....

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How to keep your man happy

Human nature is complex so are relationships, always changing and extremely delicate. Everyone hopes for long-lasting relationships, some marriages last to a golden jubilee celebration and some can’t even last for few days. There is so much secret formula for a lasting marriage, faithful and happy relationship but there can be few simple guidelines which can help. Respect for each other, trust & clear communication are few keys in order to enjoy and build a long-lasting love....

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Career and Motherhood

This is the story of an ordinary woman named Shally. A woman who has inspired me big time in my life. Hopefully this inspires many more. Shally is one of my great friend, wonderful mother and an amazing soul. Post pregnancy, she took a gap of 3 years from her career. Everyone REFUSED to consider her for a new job, even though she had a fantastic resume. Earlier she had been through a similar situation when she was trying to look out for a job when she was expecting her first...

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Blend

Everyday our lives repeat as we eat, sleep and speak. Yet what we do every single day isn't done as consciously as when we do something different each day. Some of us watch TV while eating and others update their blog while eating (my kind of multitasking). But if one day, we do not eat we will then be conscious of its lack and not when it is there. Although, for sleep, there is just sleep. You can't multitask while sleeping and it is necessary to be less conscious while performing...

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IS BOREDOM IMPORTANT FOR US?

Boredom may be an inherent part of life for practically everyone, but it needn't be destructive. Being busy has become a status issue and a prestige mark nowadays. But boredom should equally be given an importance and to be channelized properly. In fact we are at our most creative phase when we are idle or getting bored. My interest for writing aroused when I started getting bored, and that was the most creative thing happened to me which I never realised before. Boredom has encouraged...

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Old and Bold - Age is just a number

Impatiently, I looked at my watch again. It was 9 PM and I had been waiting at the airport from the time the sun has set till now. Damn! This flight is delayed again. In my mind, I was growing impatient and the 3rd round of filter coffee did not help much to ease my impatience. “Arrghh..when will this flight arrive?” “Damn, I must have had some snacks from office before starting. After all everything is costly in this airport and my job is not paying me much”. “Why did I even bother...

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Clean your room in a jiffy!!!!!

Cleaning my room... Doesn't that sound tough!!! No more!!..... Your room is a place where you like to be independent, keep your books and other items, your laptop, your games etc, etc. The usual look of a messy room consists of used shirts and pants lying here and there, books placed here and there, pillow and bed sheets turned upside down, pieces of used paper lying outside the dustbin. Well I am sure, you all must have experienced this. But you need to get out of the comfort zone...

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THE PURPOSE OF LIFE

What's the purpose of life? Has any purpose to it? The most powerful brain is just a tool to get the bread and butter? What's the difference between the man of everything and the man of nothing? If every body is striving for the 'more' then what's the point of having anything at all? Is it progress or begging for 'more'? Then what is the real progress of our life? The real growth is not a problem to itself. Whatever may the level of our life, we are all unable to see the facts....

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Last Name - To Change or Not To

For few, it’s just another name and for rest of us it’s a part of our identity! Post marriage, I have made a lot of people to raise their eyebrows and to look at me with a disgust. They absolutely hated my adamancy, which was my firm decision to not change my last name. No matter, how educated a girl can be and no matter how far we progress, the society still follows few norms which sometimes doesn’t make any sense to me. After all, these are the situations where the hidden...

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Work from Home

To work from home is a change in lifestyle which is adopted by many companies day by day. You can do your job where ever and whenever you want. That is the biggest test for yourself, how well you perform when you don't have any one watching you, it develops discipline in yourself and you are not obliged to work for some one, that is the time you work for your self. You enjoy your work. A survey summarized in Microsoft whitepaper work without walls indicates the benefits of working...

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10 habits of successful peoples

Positive behaviors: According to many successful people, besides being the result of achieving success, there is a positive outlook   from the root causes of success. To achieve success, one must give priority to grateful and positive self-discussion. It is one of the most important habits of successful people. Organization:   Planning the future in the organization and setting goals and prioritizing. The "to-l-list" should be designed for the day...

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A freedom to choose

Acceptance of truth gives freedom and freedom gives the opportunity to make choices. If we are really having freedom, then we can choose our own path and this path will not be defined by the failures and success of others. This path will not have the limits or outcomes that were set by the choices of others. If we are really free, we can set our own limits and outcomes, by making our own choices. I always hear from everyone that something is impossible or unworthy because someone...

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Leading The Indian Army Way

Last year, I was in Pune for one of the very important session of my life. The session was all about leading the people and how to make them work for you. I being a production supervisor has to undergo such trainings as the job on the shop floor mainly comprises leading your team of 50 or so and meeting the Production targets.  The most important teachings that I gained there in the session about leading the people came from the example of leading the troops. Yeah, you guessed it...

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Angel with broken wings

Sensitive people are the most dangerous and yet the most nicest people that you will ever come across in your life. If they trust you, if they like you, they will do everything in their capacity to make you happy. They are the most genuine and the honest people. There is nothing that they won’t share with you if they trust your kindness. They are the tortured souls that constantly need love and care. They are not able to live being hated. This is because they have been betrayed multiple...

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The Karva Truth

It is that time of the year where the social media would be flooded with “I love my husband” post, ladies decked up like heroines of Bollywood sagas, with mehendis and all, waiting eagerly for the moon to show up and a bunch of feminists tearing them apart with bunches of logics for following a regressive custom. For the uninformed, India is celebrating “Karva Chauth”, which is a one day festival celebrated by women in India in which married women fast from sunrise to moon rise for the...

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Unforgettable school memories

Wearing white colored shirt, black fitted pants bring me in, the memories of school time. Not fully sweet, but yes, those memories are the best actually, in the span of our existence. Aren't those? Often you recollect those memories just when you get bored with your work or schedule. Now, we feel “how precious those moments are?” Of course, so many responsibilities and complicated projects given by boss give a flashback of those homework and classwork days. Haven’t these thoughts...

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Ban on Crackers? Is it the right decision by Hon. Supreme Court? OR A target on Hinduism?

We are living in a democratic nation. People can express their views about any issue. So Chetan Bhagat is raising his voice.  This is good for the functioning of democratic government. Now, come to the point. Honourable Supreme Court of India banned selling of Crackers in Delhi NCR region.  You can celebrate with cracker but you have to purchase it from other states .  Only selling of Cracker is banned.  The reason behind this ban is that PIL of two small kids. Supreme Court wants to...

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Feel real happiness this Diwali

 Diwali, in India, considered as one of the most important festival in Hinduism. This is the festival of Lights. Light which gives us Hope that after every dusk of Evilness there comes a dawn of Virtue. But by burning crackers as a way to celebrate this fest, we are just making our surrounding worse. People often say that we should burn ecological friendly crackers to celebrate as it is the integral part of this fest, but in my opinion how come noise pollution from so...

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Funny....Why is English so important for getting jobs nowadays?

​Hello Guys... First of all this post is totally my views its not related to anyone and not any intention to hurt anyone. Its just my opinion. Ok lets start, Today we will discuss, "Why is English language so important for getting jobs nowadays?" Like why.... I mean why it is so compulsory to communicate fluently in English for getting jobs.  We are Indians and   India  has a unique variant  culture and different languages ,  then why speak English....

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Letter to all mothers written by a teen girl

​ Dear All Moms,                     You would be thinking that this is some emotional letter about the struggles of teenagers. If you think so, then you are wrong. This letter just tells what a teen girl thinks and wants their parents to do. Of course, this won't be true for everyone.                    If you are a mother and have a teen daughter, at first you should try to understand how your daughter is. What I mean to say is there are teens who are so different in behavior -...

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People and Popular Prejudices

The world that we live in today is much appreciated despite having its cons. I agree that we need not focus on the drawbacks and just cherish the positives. But I also think that someone has to bring them into the limelight. Today racism, sexism, discrimination and what not are quite a common issue. I think we all would love to live in a society where all these social problems are eradicated. For every problem there is a solution is what they say, so lets discuss the root cause of...

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Celebrate oneness on this pious occasion

​ ​ Diwali - festival of lights, Carnival of victory of the truth night, Defeat of evil, In every duel, Either in thoughts or actions, To improve even in fractions. Did Lord Ram say it’s for Hindus? Did he say to pollute? Did he show any communities to divide? On glaring contrary, this sparkling festival is to unite, Some people see communal colour, Seeking opportunity even in joyous festival, Creating rifts and imaginary rivals. Even the educated youth following them,...

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An imposed mindset

A naive being we all are... As we enter this wicked world... Begins our journey on a crooked path... Frittering our natural composure... Absorbing and retaining... All what is taught to us... And thus, we transform into vulnerables... Deep-diving into a vast sea of struggles... ​ All of us arrive in this world with a pure and an immaculate soul. A soul which has nothing but love to offer. Neither any grudges nor any attachments!...

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The first love

Love is a feeling which leaves us in another world. Love, especially the teenage one is filled with joy, curiosity and can be thrilling too. This is the age where everything seems to favour our emotions and the rest aside. Let me share a small story of my first love-It was March 2008 when i had just completed my XIIth boards and was looking forward to get into some decent engineering college. Hopefully I got one and started my studies there. It was the first day of my college when i...

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A Letter to My Love

Dear (………), By writing this letter, I would just like to share with you that people are eager to know about you from me. On the days, they ask me that for whom I’m picking up my poetic canny? I can’t take your name as I promised you. But I can put the feelings that who are thee! You are someone that I love under the stars above truly, with all my heart. You are the reason why I feel like I want to fly & touch the sky. Have I told you yet that you mean the world to me! You make me...

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When the name of the dream is Bullet Train

​The new hot Bullet train project has been taken by Indian Prime Minister Narendra Modi to change the experience of train journey of Indian people in collaboration with Japan. Bullet trains are the pride of Japan; but how apt it is for Indian-Railways to run bullet trains across the country? Prime Minister has vowed to give Indian economics a new dimension with this project. But in reality the scenario is quite different. Come try to find out some facts....

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Imperfection is fun

Isn't it great to be great. Doing things that help the masses, youth follows and elders give example of. Having a personality loved and followed by millions and more. Being a person onto whom everyone’s eyes turn and whisper “I want to be like him, like really successful and awesome”. ​Is it that important to be perfect. In my point of view, definitely not. God have created all kind of personalities like our food items. A healthy body can’t sustain only on proteins or...

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I hope I could be a better me for you; only for you

“I hope you love me like I love you; I hope you feel for me like I feel for you; I hope you need me like I need you; I hope you want me like I want you; I hope you miss me like I miss you; I hope you think about me like I think about you; I hope you want to hug me like I want to hug you; I hope you want to talk to me like I want to talk to you; I hope you dream of me like I dream of you; I hope you crave for me like I crave for you; I hope you care for me like I care for you”....

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Upgradation of new wife to new mom

I thought being a new wife was the most difficult thing, just then life proved me that I was wrong! There are more tougher jobs and the toughest was being a mother! So being a mother doesn't start once you deliver your baby. It starts right from the moment you conceive. I was married and had somehow passed the hurdles of living in a joint family. Life was getting better. Being a dentist, I started practising too. So one fine day, I tested positive for pregnancy. It was a very fine...

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From Hostel to Home

As the festival of lights is approaching near,  every hostelite's excitement level is alleviating to its highest peak day by day. And the reason is to re-capture and cherish some amazing memories and moments with our near and dear ones. As near about 1 week is left for Diwali, everyone started packing their luggage, reserving their seats for travelling to home, babbling with friends and relatives over phone or social networking, discussing regarding their plans of arrival...

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How To Have Constant Liveliness Throughout The Day?

I forget my pains, if any while doing a thing that interests me. “Passion satisfies our hunger”. It enthrals us into abundance. If our mind tells that we are tired, our whole body starts accepting it and we start feeling the same, but in spite of our mind is intensely engaged, we can keep on at an activity indefinitely. We have innumerable intuition apps in our brain just like our smart phone, which keeps occupying the space. Why our smart phones get hanged quite often? If the device has a...

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Let Them Go

Friends are the essence of life. They are the part of life on whom you can rely for everything or they can rely on you. They know your weaknesses and your strengths and most importantly they understand you more than you know yourself. But what if you have a fake friend. The one who just pretends to care, who knows how to sugarcoat everything. Claiming that they can do anything for you in front of everyone but when the time comes they are far behind. So far that you can’t even search...

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Why people fall in love?

Suddenly across my mind, there crossed this thought, why people fall in love?​ When there's so much on this Earth that's equally satisfying then why need a partner to experience the joy? Why cannot one have the exact amount of pleasure that you get on a Sunday trip with them. The Sunday trip with friends is more fun but a get away with that special one is special. Family is equally present whenever you want them but hesitant, we are sometimes to just open ourselves up and talk to them....

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From pain to peace: The art of acceptance

​ 'Happiness' is a term which continues to be undefined. When someone asks the question 'Are you happy?', it comes with a certain amount of uneasiness which can make you rue about your past. A person might think he/she is happy with their life but it takes only a moment of incidence to make them feel otherwise. Is there a single secret or are there many factors which determines a person to be happy? This might sound strange to hear but the secret to be happy is to not care...

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A Blogger

A blog is a discussion or informational website. It is not have to be formal all the time. It consists of all the information explaining an event, situation, topic, etc. Blogging is really fun if you have an interest in writing and if you can give shape to your thinking. As a blogger you have to perform each and every day. Blogging is a continuous process and taking a break from it means you have lost all the links which you have created, lost all the readers which you have generated in...

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Peace

​ When the tranquil states of our minds rests in the complicated intricacies of life, we still hope for a better situation to handle with, providing us strength and vigour to withstand the crowd of one's own internal, although varied "self -faces". When the dawn is still dark, there is hope for a narrow slit of light illuminating our much needed inner strength, we stand in a place where the curtains of our imaginations are broad enough to create for us the darkness of night...

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Sabse Bada Rog? Kya Kahenge Log!!

It was 5:30 in morning when one day I woke up. Some dogs were barking out of my house so I went into the balcony to check what was going on. There I saw this lady, basically a lit picker. Some dogs were barking at her. But as I noticed, she was continuously doing her work without getting affected by interruption of those dogs. As I noticed she was searching for something useful in that garbage, whenever dog barked at her she used to throw stones at dogs and then was again doing her work....

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Principles for Success

Success means different things to different people. For some it is to become millionaire, for some it is to achieve peace of mind, different denotation for different people. We have so many different definitions. But the great definition I can give is, you can do whatever you want to do in your life. From starting, we are told to do this and do that. We hate if society guides us for something but eventually we are doing that only. How to walk, how to talk. You are the product of all...

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Thoughts run in my mind because I am alive

When the sun goes down And the moon goes up When the head goes down And the heart goes up When the noise goes down And the silence goes up When the anger goes down And the smile goes up When the day goes down And the night goes up When sorrow goes down And the smile goes up It is all about living the different shades and moods of life At times it seems tiring At times it seems sad At times it seems complicated What about love What...

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Feel Special

Happiness.... Everyone expects to be happy... but one should know that we ourselves are responsible for this happiness.... why we always try to depend or make any person or situation to be the reason of our happiness.... its great if you can bring happiness in others life but then why not make yourself happy.... happiness is just a feeling which you can create instantly and you don't need a reason for it ..... So, stay happy in life. A stubborn mind is not able to handle situations...

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The Fault in our Names!

​ As I stepped into a restaurant for lunch with my friend, Varun, who had come to Guwahati on vacations, he told me that another friend would join us too.                 “Jyoti…Jyoti is on the way,” Varun said. As is with the way among friends, I put on a teasing smile and bantered, “Jyoti! Oho! Girlfriend! Eh? You naughty boy, how did it happen?” Varun appeared smug, winked, then staring past me at the entrance, added, “Ah…here come Jyoti!” I turned around, expecting my eyes to...

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Money Money Money

We all must have heard: "money attracts money" . Have you ever felt that this truly applies in our real life. At least I have noticed that. Among all our relatives there are few very rich families. And they are very friendly with each other. I mean keeping relation with middle or low class relatives is not done by them. They are happy with each other. Its like forming a group. The Rich people group! They call everyone in their functions and festivals but entertain only their...

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Life at your own risk

Life is a roller coaster ride. Don't know the next turn and still have the pain of going down and excitement of what is coming next while going up. Relationship with ourselves plays the biggest role, here. As we remain calm and distract ourselves from downs of life, it gives the view that from above or being up is actually nicer, as we go up from down. Someone said take life as it comes. What if life won't give as you wanted to take it, would you quit? But quitting cannot be the...

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When ignominy of humanity takes place; trust is lost

September 10, 2017, around 11:45 am (this was the date and time when ignominy of humanity took place), the 40-year-old accuser lured 5-year-old gullible girl with candy and called her inside the classroom. SSShhh!!! Don’t tell anyone, this is what she’d been told who’d been raped allegedly by a peon in the classroom of Tagore Public School. 5-year-old, not only the school life but also the life of her just started and at this very young age she went through all these. Can you imagine the...

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Why is it important to impose self-discipline in children during their early childhood days?

I am a mother of two kids - my elder son is 10.9 years and my younger daughter is 4.8 years old. The day my son started accepting the little commands I decided that time to be the beginning for instilling discipline into him. Now I am astounded to see the positive set of advantages not to my son but also to me. However, my younger one would require some more time to get into the disciplinary circle. But I am trying hard and nourishing her with the same set of self-discipline which I fed...

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A Troll Atheist

Spectrum of meanings and still adding types Atheism is a diffuse term. Literally, it stands for denial of any deity. In its pure form, an atheist is rational enough to counter logic of presence of God with more feasible understanding of nature, customs, laws. Atheism is more precisely a way of understanding things we feel and belief keeping in shadow of god, his anger or his kindness. Atheist tends to be a product of circumstances. Among dwindling and blacked religious...

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Illumination

The places with deep colored fluorescents are darker than the darkness itself. In the absence of light, your brain's just unaware, baffled about the surroundings. But these dark lights! They bring out the true essence of darkness. Among these colors, you can sense the evilest of things in this society, sending chills upon your spine. Those colored phosphor coating are much more than just light. It can arouse the deepest of thoughts within you. The thought of murder, contemplation,...

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The Purpose of Life

​ The world is full of opportunities. Is that what everyone says?  But  still  every  individual  finds  it  difficult. Everyone needs an opportunity so that they can feed themselves. It’s all about ​ survival.  Has God given us this life  to only survive or we had to keep ourselves alive until death?​ ​ “No”. There is a purpose for everyone’s life. Ultimately living is the main purpose. What is the purpose of living? This is the question every person should...

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School Life

The best part of life was school life. Every single moment used to become a celebration. It was the only thing we used to hate when we used to be there and after leaving it we end up missing it very badly, it just leaves us thinking why we ever grew up? ​ Everything about school life was awesome except for one… waking up early in the morning. Sleeping late and waking up late was the only thing we wanted but school used to reverse it. Another event was wearing the...

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VICTIM OF OUR OWN THOUGHTS

Most of us know what is right and what is wrong. Most of us love heroes rather than villains. Most of us want to be good human beings, at least try to be good to some people. But, unfortunately, we do mistakes which makes us wrong, knowing what is right. For example, many of us want to get rid of anger and gradually learn various ways to control it like taking deep breath, going away etc. but in real life situation, we often lose our temper. This is because you are a victim of your...

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Am I alone??

Am I alone??? There is anyone who cares about me since my first breath to my last breath...!!                                                                                  Hmmm..this is a deep topic to concern. Because we all in our life at least one time feel that we are alone, no one cares about us, even we think about ending our life because we think that our life is waste or we have not got anything yet. Sometimes we think that now there is no way, no one help us...

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What no mom tells about getting married!!

I am just one month into my marriage and am already planning to run into some corner of the world and hide there forever. I think I had had this feeling right after a week or so. ​ My mom never told me that there is always a chance that am going to be married off to a joint family where you will have to adjust with everyone. You are no longer single and you don't have a life for you! The moment u got married, you have sacrificed your life for the welfare of others. My mom...

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Surrogacy: A mother understands what a child does not say

The ministry of health and family welfare of India introduced the surrogacy bill in the year 2016, for uplifting the rights of the surrogate mother as well as the bill aimed at banning commercial surrogacy to protect women from exploitation. Although the bill permits altruistic surrogacy under strict regulations, as an agreement between the surrogate and infertile couple in which surrogate mother will be paid for the entire medical bill. Surrogacy is only for the couple who are married...

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It's not about 9 to 5, It's about 5 to 9

Are you having trouble reaching your goals? Here's a bit of inspiration to help you remember all you can do from starting to achieve everything you want if you utilize your 5 to 9 efficiently. As I work in a firm. Like other professionals my office timings are 9 to 5, it can vary for others. Working all day long for the firm, you get time from 5 to 9 which is yours and you have to decide how better you can utilize this time. What actually 5 to 9 means? It is the time where we can work on...

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A NEET IN NEED IS NOW NEET A WEED IN TAMIL NADU

An Analysis About : NEET- NEED OR NO NEED Disclaimer - The article below is my personal views & not intended to pinpoint any particular society, group, affected people and sentiments.  Who can read - Those who are broad minders, good thinkers, sensible listeners, responsible speakers, pure followers of secularism (irrespective of religion, language, state, culture, caste etc..) and persons who enjoy reading can carry on with this article. Who not to read - Those who...

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Navaratri

One of the most colorful and fascinating festivals in India, Navaratri is celebrated every year in the month of September. In eastern states, it is being called as DURGA POOJA since the day depicts the win of goddess Durga against a buffalo. In few states, Navaratri is celebrated concerning the win of Lord Rama against Raavana. Navaratri mainly conveys about the evil sources killed by God. ​ Navaratri is famous for Golus especially in South India. Golu is an arrangement where a huge...

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WHAT SHOULD A FRESHER DO IN COLLEGE?

Hello fresher out there. This is an article for you if you have passed your schools and taken admission in some college. The first day at college is always a special one because you have a lot of things in mind. You often get ideas about the stuff you have planned to do in next four important years of your life. There are many kinds of students. First, those who are educational freaks. These have an aim to bang the best package during placements and so they work really hard for it...

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Age is just not a number

And then suddenly my phone rang, it was Mom .. I wasn't much scared .. I just picked up the phone and said, "Coming in 10 Mins". Then he hugged me (probably for the last time) and we said good byes. I wasn't scared about what has happened right now with me .. Instead I was scared if my mom asked about all those marks which have been carved on my body forcibly. At home everything was at peace .. I went straight to my room and locked myself there for the rest of the day ..  I...

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Shackles of Poverty

After I came to a metropolitan city, I witnessed what busyness means in its actual terms. As I was born and brought up in such a town, where one can hardly find any giant structures, I found myself little shocked. But the view which shocked me most was the perpetual dominance of child labour. This hydra headed social evil is far more dangerous and destructive than one can ever imagine. It is expanding rapidly across the country faster than a viral fever. It has its root deep under the...

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A Change

A change is the only thing needed, but you know what the problem is, a change is always needed but it is never initiated. We all want to have a change in society’s scenario, education system, political system, certain laws but we never give a try to help it to change. All we want is to keep cursing the problems and not willing to find a solution. To change your life you need to change your priorities. ​ We always speak up for women’s respect but when we see someone harassing them,...

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REPEATED FAILURES - WHAT IT MEANS?

Everyone wants to win. Accepting failures and drawbacks is very difficult. Yes, it is true that failure teaches us a lot, people come out as a stronger being. People, in general, fail because they lack something. After failing they gather all their energy and work upon weaknesses. But, repeated failures does not keeps on making you stronger. Otherwise, people would rather choose to fail to be the strongest ever.   After a certain failure you start feeling weak, no longer motivated and...

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Status of Girls

Freedom!! This new society had given various privileges to girls. The situation is now entirely changed for girls. Girls are considered no less than boys. This is what exactly we get to hear everyday, but is it true. Do this freedom really exists, NO!! Even today girls girls are: Molested,                            Raped, Female child is killed in mother’s womb, Restrictions to study, Women Trafficing, And what not, have you ever heard of a boy being raped, no because this is...

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The Diary of a TRANSGENDER

​ Dear Diary,  Its really hard to express what I am feeling right now.... It feels like the world has stopped and there's nothing I can do ...! Everyday in the morning as I look into the mirror, I ask the same question to God again and again .. Why in the world did he created us ...?  Why he left us to become a joke in front of everyone ? …  Why haven’t he made us like others ? … Why did he did that to us ? ... Everyday as I walk out the house, I have fear in my eyes and...

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The world without religion

Religion!! The omnipresent psychology which dominates more or less every individual's intellect. In every walks of life, religion has become the companion, the guide and the supreme regulator of our actions and attitude. Rather than confining people to a single religion to explore the unknown almighty, it has divided the humanity and their mentality into pieces as if they were barricaded by high tension line, where trespassing costs severely.  Imagine of that moment when you will be...

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Closest yet farthest!!

​Holding his emotions... With all his might... Who knows he might have been... Shedding tears all night!?... Yet with a smile on his face... He never expressed any resentment... For he who never expressed... Was actually the one who cared... An assurance of safety... came along with his presence... Just any other human... But with an extraordinary forbearance... Silently sacrificing his peace... For our pizza with...

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Education System : The 'Markcist' Communism?

​ The title happens to be a coined phrase which flashed across my mind when I gave a thought about it.  The education system these days has become a no-loss business. But the real cost which we have to pay is in terms of our ethics.  As it goes, the Indian society is the most tolerant and open minded society existing on this planet. It had it's laws and regulations, in the fields of education as well. But we have that ability to overcome any kind of 'homeostasis' and accept...

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What does God wants from us?

​ We all know God is the most supreme among all, who created everything and rules over everything. Everything bows in front of him and nothing is impossible for him. Yet being the most high, he considers everyone as equal. He is very kind and loves everything he created. He treats us as his children and calls himself as our parent and this is the relationship  that we have with him. And so, as a parent he wants to be with us in every situation and help us in everything that we do....

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Confess your feeling with magical love letter

​ See, it’s a great chance to tell why you like him/her. Is it any quality or anything in which you have fallen in love?Don't leave this chance. Now, In this time to pour out your feelings for him, tell him what you feel about him/her, why is he/she is so important and tell patiently and how much you suffer whole days from coming out those lovable feelings. I am damn sure your cruse or to whom you love secretly would have definitely tears in his/her eyes while writing. Personally,...

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How to inculcate discipline among our children

​ Every parent's dream is to have the children who are very disciplined and obedient. But practically is it so easy to develop this quality? No way, it is a day to day battle with the children to inculcate discipline among them. Let me take the example of my personal experience with my own child. My 8-year-old son Prajwal is very naughty and always likes to be on the playground with his friends. In spite of several reminders to come home, he would not. So I started tying a watch so...

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Why are writers dangerous?

 The species of a writer is the most versatile in its kind. They could make a normal wood look as majestic as the mountains touching the sky and there at one place, sitting in your balcony reading four lines could make your heart cry. They will induce in you the feelings of pain and virtue so well and carve your soul with the sentiments by splashing every shade of passion. They will make you trust your instincts vehemently and will nurture your mind to to never put...

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Blessing is acceptable but why not they?

​ Basically we all homo sapience are made by God! It is our faith. On the other hand, our scientific education says when a man and woman perform sexual intercourse, their egg (sperm and ovum) form a fusion of gametes (zygote) that turns into young one after the period of nine months. We consider both the reasons acceptable then why not third gender? When people abuse each other it is incapacitate for them that they fight with each other on small issues, why? Because...

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Are we safe?

Early morning, I get up and switch on TV to know the headlines. Back to back, there are news of abduction, murder, rape, missing people, terrorist activities, flood creating havoc, train derailment and what not. The list is never ending. I switch off the TV but that is not the solution. I don't know where are we leading. Are we really developing? Are we who launching number of satellites? We are who are trying to use latest missile technology? We might be developing in terms of technology...

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Are Plastic Bags Choking Our Environment?

​ May that be, a common sight in streets or malls to see people moving around with plastic bags in their right, or most of the homes who have a handy stock of plastic bags piled for ready usage. Plastic bags seem to have become an intrinsic part of our lives.  Polythene bags of less than 20 micron are banned by the government. However, the manufacturing of these kinds of plastic bags cannot be easily tracked. They are manufactured by small vendors in hidden places and sold...

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IS YOUR LOVE 'REAL or FAKE'?

Love is pure, so to use words like 'Real Love' and 'Fake Love' is meaningless. But, people have redefined love based on their understanding and requirements. I have seen people around me experiencing the pain arising out of misconception about love. Love is the source of happiness, then how can it be a source of pain? It is like we want to make and enjoy tasty rasagulla (an Indian sweet), but end up with something bitter resembling to rasagulla because the method followed was...

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A PROLONGED LONGING

​ Every morning began with a chide for getting up late and every night ended by getting a bash due to a fight with siblings! The days went on and on like that. Well, there were a series of daily chores that went on in between the bashes. On weekdays, the routine started by struggling to get up early in the morning to go to school, come back home, watch TV, a bit of studying, only a bit, and then the magical two hours of incessant, independent outdoor playing that constantly shifted...

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Time sets real value for everything

Time is the most powerful force in the universe. Nothing controls time but time controls everything. No speed can overtake time, no brake can stop it. No land can produce time, no gold can buy it. Great or small, time rules above all. Nothing in this world is either cheap or valuable. Everything is time dependent. The value of everything depends upon the time of its need. ​ Let's try to understand the role of time through a story. 'Once there lived a man who was very poor and he used...

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What is happiness?

Everyone's ultimate goal of life is being happy. Whenever you ask someone, 'Are you happy?', does anyone say, 'Yeah I am extremely happy in life'..? Never..some would say 'oh, so busy life'... someone would say, 'Oh my son is not studying well even after spending so much money, where is the happiness?'. So ultimately we feel no one is happy in this world. So what is happiness exactly then? Can we attain the state of happiness by buying new things, traveling abroad, earning a lot of money?...

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ENCOURAGING CHILD'S INDEPENDENCE

Why moms get exhausted very soon? Had you ever given a thought over it? Because, moms take care of a lot of household chores each day, which is one of the reasons why they get exhausted as the sun goes down and the moon appears. Can children help their moms in shutting down their exhaustion level? Research has shown that it is always better  to allow your child to do thing for themselves which will help the child to reach his level of consciousness. By doing so, a child will...

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A personal feel of good governance

​ I just want to share a very small incident which took place with me last week. I work in a MNC in Mumbai and basically I am from Bihar. The story starts when my Mom told she needs to go back to Bihar after staying for few days with me here in Mumbai. I booked a ticket for her in Mumbai Howrah Duronto express till Howrah and from there she had a connecting train to Bhagalpur. She was carrying two bags with her. One was full of clothes and edibles while the second one contained some...

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Candid

The other day I was just having tea when one of my friend said just keep having tea, I will click your candid picture and then you can post on instagram with a hashtag #Candid. I quickly said why the photographer just do not say candid when you go for marriage portfolio. We are so much interested to show the world these days how we stare, admire or walk. Just passing by the sea and watching sunset we ask our friend to click a candid picture. Candid Sunset ,candid beach and candid you :P...

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Why the Sangh’s preaching fail?

While the Sangh claims to have many followers it still fails to get its message across a vast majority even with political support on its side. Take the case of Education where it wants major changes. One of the change at its core is the use of Hindi and native languages. It has harped on it and many of its supporters including those in limelight would go at considerable length to advocate the raison d’etre behind its motives and the benefits of such move. However, a cursory look at...

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The Political Party’s Dilemma & Politics of Change

The Political parties are hustling with each other trading charges. While one side is all out shouting at the deliveries gap which is obvious, the other side seems in huddle mode to claim success. Some ‘data presentation’ optics were taken earlier and more are in offing to bolster these claims. Then of course is the stream of economic data with its hard facts around the same which continue to depict ‘tough situation and a mixed concoction about an “improving” future. The man in the last...

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Unsafe or safe country?

According to a survey,  there are ten countries which are very insecure and all are muslim countries. Pakistan is at number four. The Name of our country was not in that list. So does that mean our country is safe. In our country, if the rapist cannot get punishment then the candle march is extracted. And if punished the entire city is burnt. This was what happened when Ram Rahim was punished. Seriously, there is lack of education in our country.   Every man is a rapist some rape with...

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Should we punish our children?

Preeta's two-year-old son is playing on the dining table while everyone is having lunch. He spills the sambar unknowingly on mama's new white kurta. Preeta's immediate reaction is a slap on the little one's face. Now the question arises, did she do the right thing? Our immediate answer would be, yeah, of course, right, who will tolerate the new kurta being spoilt? If I slap him, he won't repeat the same mistake. Now, let us analyze this situation with a cooler mind. Was it child's mistake...

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Let's be animals

How nice to swim in water, how nice to fly in clear sky, how nice to spend time in vast grazing lands, how nice to jump from trees to trees, how nice to run in forests, every animal has its own way of living their life. No animal falls into restriction of its parents or anything else mentally, they don’t have problem of earning, generally they don’t have problem of food, they just care for their families. We humans have created society which is ruling us since its birth, every one...

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Disastrous Human Minds

We seldom realise that however different may two people be, we humans have a lot of common thought processes that we don't know but I am sure if there is a superior person sitting and watching us from above he must be having a laugh looking at how similar his creations are. ​ There is a saying "Take life as it comes",which is very true but all of us cannot be saints. Can we? It is not as easy as it sound. People tend to have different phases in life. Some people take...

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Is there a thing called music in your life?

SA   RE   GA   MA   PA   DHA   NI   SA SA    NI   DHA   PA   MA   GA   RI   SA Recently I grew some interest in playing flute, so for basics I started with Youtube, and amazingly very first lesson everyone offers is to learn is those amazing notes of music. The entire base of music is these notes only. By learning these notes perfectly anyone can become a good musician. But is there any SA, RE, GA, MA…….. in your life? SA    RE   GA   MA   PA    DHA   NI   SA SA    NI   DHA   PA...

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How to keep yourself motivated

How to keep yourself motivated, when all you feel like doing is scrolling through Insta, Facebook, Twitter or even Pinterest? Don't worry my dear friends, it's totally okay if you've had more than one of those days in your week, because hey! You're just a human and the Mondays are too mundane.​ This article primarily focuses on the ways you could get over your lazy self, and get on the track in no time. First of all, you have to take a note of your laziness and rate it on a scale of...

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The Change

‘A little fragrance always clings to the hand, that gives you roses.’                                                                                                                        -A Chinese proverb The same way, if you could be able to give a piece of your life to the society; society would build you to keep the pace of citizenship! So, who is a good citizen? The one who does not squander his/her time in futile discussions? Or the one who does not endorse crimes? Are you a...

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Crush Vs Soulmate

​ We all have came across different scenarios in our life where a decision is to be made. At that time we seriously need help from someone to guide them to right path...Whom to choose?Who will bring happiness in my life? Does she/he loves me? And many of such dilemmas​. Guys and Girls this article won't take much of your TIME and you will like this for sure. So here we go!!! We all have that person for whom our heart beats a little faster, we feel great to see​ him/her and a...

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Her Mistakes

​ ​If i knew about all the mistakes she made... I would have never tried to be like her. Our day begins and ends..and all i can see are her atypical mistakes. Sometimes so annoying, so frustrating that I can't help but think that she must be even astonishing god with all her takes. Unacceptable is what few call it, but she calls it patience. I wonder how opposite are her thoughts to the society she lives in. And yet she is so abiding to what the same society expects from all, Such...

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Girlfriend: Girl who is Friend

When we hear a word girlfriend our minds starts to think about they may be lovers, they may be couples but how many of us thinks that they could be friends. Isn’t it strange? ​ It is not a problem of a person or of society or of behavior, but this is problem of thinking. The behavior which we have created towards this word itself shows how short minded we are. Why our mind can’t think what they may be in real world, without knowing about someone’s life, we take a judgement....

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The state burning since 1947

Kashmir is not only the most beautiful state of the Republic Union of India but is also the most disturbed state of this country. The political chain of events and disturbance is not new with Kashmir. It has been more or less same over the period of time since 1947. Several leaders and writers have tried to analyze the root cause. Let me quickly brief a short history of this problem. When British very cleverly divided India into India and Pakistan they gave options to all the princely...

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The Bar of Happiness

As children we were always taught to raise the bar for everything, be it academics or sports. Sadly over time we as a generation have raised the bar for being "Happy".  Speaking to my parents or as a mater of fact anyone into the third trimester of life, I get a very strong feeling of how "easy" life was for them back in the day. A little more analysis on the same thought reveals how wrong this assumption is. On a factual basis life was much tougher back then,  families...

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Precious gift to world: Women empowerment

The topic “Women Empowerment” is a burning issue all over the world. “Women empowerment” and “women equality with men” is a universal issue. When I hear this word, it gives me idea of mother teaching a child to walk. The same thing is applicable for the world also, women empowerment is one which will be guide any family, country or world to success. Meaning of Women Empowerment? Women Empowerment  refers to the creation of an environment for women where they can make...

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Chasing the right soul

Three questions: How will one know whether the person you are with or you are chasing is the right soul? Is it about the person or it is about you? Why do you want to fit it, or may be you adjust with yourself? ​ We try to understand the other person and then you realize that people know more about him than you actually know about him and then you think are you really in love with him or you are just in love with the idea of love...trust me we all have been there...

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Change to Experience Change!!!

Its human tendency to crave for everything and to accomplish big in life. Apart from this when destiny play its part and push human into hard situation even then our mind keeps on demanding the difference, just being that now the demand is not for big or luxurious things but is for small basic needs and necessities in human's case being roti, kapra and makaan.  We all demand and when the basic needs and demands don't get fulfilled it gives boost to grooming of negative side of humans....

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Six Life lessons from Mahabharata

Mahabharata is known to be the greatest battle till date in Indian history. It teaches us a lot of life lessons. One needs to incorporate them in their life in order to ensure that they are able to attain  everyt